unwanted child is born!!
By checapricorn
@checapricorn (16061)
United States
July 24, 2008 3:18pm CST
For those who were able to respond my old post about my friend who tried to abort her child, I am happy to inform everyone that the baby is born healthy and weigh 3.375lbs!
Thanks for everyone who were in my post last time for I know you have helped us pray for it!
She is very excited as well as the whole Family..I have not seen any picture yet, hope soon! She will name her Trish!
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24 responses
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
24 Jul 08
That is great that she had the child and it is healthy..This friend of yours will suffer from guilt over this because she wanted to abort...As this child grows and gets old enough to tell her child of her mistake and how happy she is to have her,then she should explain this to the child...I have found that in life you must face things up front because some busy body will end up revealing this secret,so she needs to handle it before some one else does..That way she can explain to her child and it will not hurt the child,she can make her understand...I have never tried to abort but i kept a secret from my child and some busy body told my child,and it really hurt him,but it took me explaining and letting me know that what i did was for his best interest...
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
27 Jul 08
I agree slickcut, I hope she is thinking about that since a lot really knows that she was trying to abort the baby! Anyway, she has still a lot of years to prepare, I hope there will be no trouble when that time comes!
@Kemboi (341)
• Eldoret, Kenya
24 Jul 08
Thanks to your friend for having a baby that she has struggled with it untill she was about to abort. I wish she could named her Angel. Because God says my thoughts are not your thoughts. Whatever we are planning as human beings is different with God's plan. I am happy to hear that, though I never read your post on this issue. But it was a something which offer attention.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
27 Jul 08
Hi kemboi,
Thanks for dropping..Yea Angel is indeed a great name, it suits her!
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Wow. That is a very small baby. I am glad that she chose to have it. I have just one daughter also and knew that I had to raise her by myself to begin with. I chose to have her and raise her all by myself. I wasn't sure what to do either but I think I made the right choice to have her. I am happy to hear that she is exicted to have the baby. I wish them both well. Trish is a pretty name.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Hi stephcjh,
Yea..very tiny for sure..LOL! She said the baby is a tall also! LOL! Well, I am very glad that she learned to accept and love the baby! Thanks for dropping!
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Congratulations on your friend and her new born baby girl. I hope they both are doing well :)
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
24 Jul 08
Yea..they are maddysmommy..Thanks a lot! My advises really for her were paid off! LOL!
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@gemini_rose (16264)
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24 Jul 08
Wow, that seems to have gone by so fast, it only seems like a couple of weeks ago that I was answering those discussions. But what great news, and I am really glad that all turned out well in the end!!
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I agree gemini..I am also very happy to hear from her and everything is fine..
Actually, I posted 2 discussions about it! first is about unwanted child and second was a news that she wasn't successful in her attempt!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
my wife got a lot of miscarriages before we hit the jackpot.... it is really painful to hear people geting pregnant but they dont want it. well still i am glad that the baby made it out, though the baby is small but it is easy to make it big. but is she still going to take care of it even the child is an unwanted child?
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
27 Jul 08
Hi se7enthbird,
That is cool for being successful after how many trials! She sounds so happy in her txt so I am sure she will take care and love Trish as the other 2 kids she got!
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
24 Jul 08
I am glad tha everything ended up turning out OK in the end for your friend and her baby. Congratulatios!!
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@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
25 Jul 08
I am happy to know that! God bless that child, her mother and entire family and yours family as well. Take care. Say my hugs and kisses to that sweet baby!
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 08
Hello checapricorn,
Send my regards to your friend and congratulations on the birth of her baby! I am not sure whether I did respond to the discussion as I can't remember anything about it. Maybe I might yet to come across your old discussion *smiles* I am sure that's the most memorable experience for your friend. To have a baby is such a wonderful part in our entire life!
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Hi gr8life,
I am sure you are there, you're always in my post!, sad to say the first post about it was deleted..I do know why!
ANyway, thanks a lot! I have no baby and I know how wonderful it is to raise a child out of love!
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Thanks for that cupid! I find it cute too but I do know what made my friend decide the name, he eldest is Trexy and the middle child is tristan! LOL!
@jhonymax2cool (424)
• India
27 Jul 08
WELL FRSTLY CONGRATS TO THE MOTHER of the new baby AND U .now about the child hey child is born so u cant dump it now take serious care of it and raise it who knows may be the bay will make every attached to it proud .also now babies are kind of healers for us.it dont matter how much stressed and tired v are one smile and look at the baby makes it all go away.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Jul 08
No problem neildc, I posted it 4 months ago and for no reason, I don't understand why it was deleted!
I wish she will be a good girl..LOL! Her mom was a good girl really! Just think and do it at first because of hard life
@MaeTsuen (257)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
every baby is god's gift... and i believe whatever mistake committed before the baby was born is not really right to put blame on the child... it's just not fair. =/ and help your friend realize that despite what happen she should see her baby as a blessing and make up with her baby for not wanting her at the early stage... god bless
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Hi Mae,
Thanks and I really appreciate those wonderful words! I am glad also that she accept the baby now wholeheartedly!
@simplyjemz (188)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
nice! that baby is a gift for her...please extend my regards...she has to take care and love that very special gift...and soon..she'll realize it's worth!
@callianthus (8)
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25 Jul 08
As someone who HAS had an abortion, I know the emotional strain it can have on someone. Some of us can take it, some of us can't. Some of us agree with it, and some of us don't. But this is definitely an inspirational and beautiful story, thank you for sharing! (Even though I wasn't on myLot during the first discussion you started)