Talula does The Hula
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
July 24, 2008 6:22pm CST
I just read that a New Zealand judge made a girl a ward of the court so he could change her name. It was Talula does The Hula.The 9 year old was so embarrassedd about her name that she didn't share it with friends. I am so glad the judge got her the name she wanted. The article didn't say what it was but I Know it is better than Talula...Question. do you like the name your parents gave you? If not, would you change it? I must confess Sarah isn't the name on my birth certificate but it is the name I always wanted so I use it here.Even though I hate, hate my real name, it was my mother's favorite girl name. She told me she named me before I was born.She didn't have the test to know the gender of the baby so she was really wanting the baby to be a girl. And now that she has passed away I don't have the heart to legally change my name.How about you?
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@greenglitterturtle (2750)
• United States
25 Jul 08
first i am glad that judge helped that child. there are children who were given a name as a joke by their parents and it is so wrong. the poor children.
my name kathleen, i didn't like as a child. but i was called kathy and that was better. but when i became an adult i heard irish people say kathleen and it sounded good. that gave me a different look at my name. i don't mind it now. but i am usually called kathy.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Kathleen is a beautiful name.
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@magicalmerlin (1623)
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25 Jul 08
Lost all my response again before posting it so will try and get it right second time!!
This seems to be a craze in New Zealand. Did you also hear about the couple that called their child 'No 16 Bus Shelter' and the court did not stop that!! Parents of twins that wanted to call them Fish and Chips were not allowed though!
I am not very keen on my middle name but don't have to use it too often luckily.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Fish and Chips.What is it with the Kiwis?Crazy. Is there something in the water?
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@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I did change my name. My birth name was Marigold Awakening. I changed it to Cyndi when I was 16. My oldest brother had it worse than i did, though. he was born, Summer in the moonlit garden. He went by Summer until he was 10 when he decided he would be called bryan. The folks indulged him. When he was 17 he legally changed his name.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
And your parents were okay with you changing your name?That's great.by the time I was 16, I was resigned to the fact that I was stuck with my real name.But now I can use Sarah here and other places. That's is sooo great.
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@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Oh yeah. My folks were pretty much cool with everything as long as we thought it through and followed our hearts. My brother Darren was the only one of us who kept his name. Darren in the Winter Snow, and he uses the whole thing. LOL. He's a character.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
26 Jul 08
I like that. It is poetry. Tell Darren In The Winter Snow hello.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I am glad they changed the name too poor little thing. I also did not appreciate my real name when my mother named me.....Jill is my pen name.....so I use it here. But as I have gotten older....I have become accustomed to it and so it's really not that bad. Jill is the name a friend gave me and I like it better then my real name!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 Jul 08
My name isn't my favorite, and I could very well change it if I wanted to but I really don't want to. I think the worst thing about my name is not my first or middle but my last name. I will be getting married soon so my last name will become my middle name, not as bad but still not my favorite.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Lizabeth. That is beautiful. My real middle name is Elizabeth and my mom hated her first name and used her middle name which was Elizabeth.She liked going by Liz.
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@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I love my name, I do not share it on mylot for personal reasons (I am afraid of stockers), but my name is great. How these parents can give their children such terrible names is ridiculous? Those children have to live with those names for the rest of their lives. I already know the name that I want for my children. Katherine will be my daugther's name, and Thomas will be my son's name.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I am also very happy to hear that that girl got to change her name. The courts were right in letting that girl change her name. She should not have had to live with a name like that.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
26 Jul 08
My favorite word is David. It means beloved in Hebrew.If I were to have a son, his name would be David. I also like the name Jonathan too.I picked Sarah because it is my favorite girl name.I like Emily too.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I feel if I were to legally change it , it would be like disrespecting my mom.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I don't mind my name...wouldn't have a clue what name I would prefer. The story goes was that my father was a Gone With The Wind fan, so named me Melanie. When my mother called my great-grandmother up to tell her the decided name, she remarked "Why are you calling her that down south name for?" LOL...I guess Melanie is popular in the southern states. I did get a bit of ridiculing though about my name, cause at the time, it just wasn't popular..no one had heard of it...being surrounded by Marys, Janes, Jennifers..and don't ask how my name was mispronounced, even by my teachers...sheesh
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
don't get me started on how my real name is misspelled or mis pronounced. So I spend my time defending a name I hate.
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@Adoniah (7513)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Some parents just have no class at all. What a tag to stick on a little child. Yes, I am going to change my name as old as I am. I am going to change it to the name my Birth Mother wanted me to have. The name that was on my original birth certificate. It is expensive on my tight budget, so I am saving up for it and will do it after the first of next year!
Shalom~Adoniah
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Shalom. May I ask what is the name your birth mom wanted?
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@wallstreet (341)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I believe a child needs to feel like they have someone in their corner. I am pleased to hear that the judge is in her corner.
A name should not a statement , but your first gift to your child.
I personally would not change my name.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
That's why I can't change my name. My mom just loved it so.It was a dream come true that I was a girl and was given my name.
@lisaradgirl (404)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I have a pretty normal name (Lisa). It's ok. My middle name though is the same as the county I was born in though, for some odd reason (Marin). My mom says it was after a lady who was very important in the area but, who knows.
My daughter has a very traditional name but at the same time it is original too. People might give her a hard time about it when she gets into high school but it's not something she will be made fun of for either. I am given a little bit of a hard time because people always want to know why I named her what I did. I named her after Spider Man's girl friend, for those of you who know the comics/movies (Mary-Jane).
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
26 Jul 08
Mary-Jane is okay name. She could go by MJ when she is a cool teenager.
@Icyfairy (284)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
25 Jul 08
wow. i would be devastated if that was my name so i'm really glad that the girl got her name changed. my name is Asheen. i actually like it alot cause it's not a typical name but i'm also glad that it's not an outrageous name. it's just perfect for me.
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@irishidid (8687)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I've grown to like my name. I write it the way I like it and that's what I go by.
I look at the good things about my name. People think it's a neat name, although you hear it more than you use to it is still a less common name and whenever someone finds out my name I get serenaded!
My son is the one with the unusual name, but not so unusual that he wants to change it. His first name is spelled differently than others with a very common name and his middle name is Storm.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jul 08
sarahruthbeth 22 hi Ihate my first namePatsie as its in the dictonary meaning someone who is a pushover for mean people,
a patsy in other words, what a stinking name to give an'
innocent baby. I would not have minded patricia but patsie,
yuck. I should have had it changed but my husband liked it so I just sort of gave up a lot of my friends just called pat and i co uld stand that.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Patsy is the name of a great and beloved country music star, Patsy Cline. And let me tell you, she wasn't a pushover.
@trishasantos (1297)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
I read that too! I have a very long name but it does not make me embarassed. And I thank God for not making my parents play on my name, I wouldn't want to have a "Talula does the Hula" name. I have 3 names with a total of 19 letters, well that does not include my mother's surname and my father's. If I'll include that I'll have a grand total of 30 letter. Too long? Yes! But I'll never change it. Because that is my identity and I even write it all whenever I have to. And it's also nice because I can play with my names and get lots of nicknames. :)
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@philjas (1134)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I've never been crazy about my name, Judy, but, I realize it could be worse! It's just not a name I would have chosen if we could choose our own names. But what's always bothered me more than the name is WHY I was named that. My brother is six years older than I am, and when I was born my parents more or less let HIM name me. Judy happened to be the name of a girl he had a crush on (now again this was at the age of 6, I think she was actually a bit older than him), so they named me that. In my opinion this is a really bad way to choose a baby's name. It's not fair, for one thing, because I never had a younger sibling to name, and my brother got a name chosen by our parents, not by me or some other six-year-old. It's just always bugged me that my parents didn't have some name THEY liked that they chose that and instead just let my name for life be because of some passing fancy of my then six-year-old brother.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Yes.It sounds like they didn't want to name you so they got your brother to name you. Well it could be worse. When I was 6, I loved The book Harry The Dirty Dog, so if I were you older sister, you would have been named Henrietta.