how do you make yourself feel more confident..

I've felt like this many times before. I get like that when I'm stressed out and tired of things going wrong. I usually like to do something relaxing to help me unwind. I like going swimming, taking a hot bubble bath, going to mall, get a manicure, or go on a little trip to the beach. It just sounds like you need to unwind, and you should be fine. I think everyone goes through this once and awhile.

My sympathy is with you, Britzsofly. When I was in that situation, I went berserk. I feel the world was crumbling down. I was a useless and helpless person. I want to be alone. I did not go to work for days. I stayed in bed, crying, crying and crying. I locked myself in my room all day long. It was horrible. Surprisingly, after 3-4 days, I came back to sense that it is time for to get up and face reality. Life must go on. I started by organizing myself. I would clean my messy room, get ready and get out from the house. I watch movie, went window shopping, buy things I like. I focus on my work and I put side the feeling of selfpity. Very soon I realized my sadness was gone and I was on my feet again feeling more stronger and confidence.