Pending Friend Request
By agihcam
@agihcam (1914)
Philippines
July 24, 2008 7:38pm CST
I have time right now to view the stuffs on my page here and when I did navigate to my Pending Friend Request, I have found out that I have 5 pages of request in there two months ago and they are still pending. I don't know why they are not accepting my request. So I decided to delete my request right now. Sorry but if you don't want to accept my request then it will be fine for me, I was just wondering why you did not accept it. Imagine my avatar is already two months in your home page and you're not doing any response.
Anyway, just to clean up my page I have delete those who did not want to accept my request. Hope it will not happen to you when you are the one did the request. Thanks.
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13 responses
@meggan79 (436)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I am sure they have a reasoning behind it, but unless you ask them personally you will never know. Some may want to check out your profile and see if you have anything in common before they accept. If they don't feel they will be posting to the same interest groups they may feel it best not to be friends. I would give it a time frame and if they don't accept delete it and maybe later on you can try it again and they will want to be friends.
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@agihcam (1914)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
I have an assumption that maybe some of them only have interest on the feature here where they can get earn and not have more interest with other stuff. But that was my assumption only and no intention of hurting somebody, but if you're one of those,Beep,Beep
@agihcam (1914)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Here is an example;
People A intention of joining here is to earn money as much as he can.
People B intention is to have more friends just like friendster or any other networking sites and the earnings is just secondary with them.
With such there is a high probability that the People B will accept the friends request than People A, since People A activities here will focus more on posting or responding as much as he can.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I also have a bunch of people whom I requested that are still on my pending friend request page. 6 pages worth! Some are from over a year ago! I don't know why these people never accepted or denied my friendship, but as I took the time to request their friendship I think it is only fair that they are the ones that do it. Okay, I do understand some of them may have left mylot for one reason or another, but I'm still not going to go through the hassle of cleaning up my pending friends request page, especially with being on dial-up. So on this page they will stay.
When someone requests my friendship I add them as soon as I see the request.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I have alot of pending friend requests that I have made also over the last two years with Mylot. I requested some of them from a long time ago. I think they left Mylot and never came back. Some of them have been back and have not accepted me for some reason or other. I would also like to know why some of the active members dhave not accepted me too.
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@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
That is a loo of pending friends request... i think some did not accept your invitation because they are no longer active here in mylot... that happened to me too... i had a pending friend request for two months... and when i checked... i saw that the member has not logged if for quite some time... so i think it is okay to delete them...
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
[i]Hi friend. Have you checked their profile if they are still active? If so, then that was really disgusting. But there were people here who chooses only who to befriend. What I do to my pending friend requests is I give them only 1 week, if they won't accept my request, I automatically delete them.
Keep posting. HUGZ![/i]
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Some people join myLot and then don't stick around for one reason or another, so they might not even see your friend request.
Others aren't sure what it is about and think a friend request here is like on some of the other social networking sites where if you're a friend, you're expected to 'hit' all of your friends' pages every day, leaving comments or whatever. If they see you have nothing in common, they deny the request.
Don't worry about them. Continue to post and pay attention to what YOU do.
@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I have 4 people in my pending friends. Some are from a month ago, and some 2 months.
I guess they just already have too many friends.
I was going to delete them too, but I decided to leave them there.
That way I can remember how to get to their page to see their discussions. That's why I wanted to be their friend in the first place because I was interested in their discussions.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
25 Jul 08
cool it man. 
there are some members here don't want to add more friends in their list. i also have some pending friend request but i don't bother if they don't want me to be their friends. just keep posting my friend and let's do what we suppose to do here. KEEP SMILING = NEIL
there are some members here don't want to add more friends in their list. i also have some pending friend request but i don't bother if they don't want me to be their friends. just keep posting my friend and let's do what we suppose to do here. KEEP SMILING = NEIL1 person likes this
@misty99 (736)
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25 Jul 08
Hello agihcam....Haven't checked my pending friends request for two months i think,but i have lots of them
.I am wondering too why they don't accept my invitation.Some i haven't seen posting.Some are still here and very much active.Whatever their reasons are time will come for me to delete all those requests....depends on my mood but it will come.At first i was lonely,disappointed but now....it's fine.So don't you worry about this pending.Just keep on posting!
.I am wondering too why they don't accept my invitation.Some i haven't seen posting.Some are still here and very much active.Whatever their reasons are time will come for me to delete all those requests....depends on my mood but it will come.At first i was lonely,disappointed but now....it's fine.So don't you worry about this pending.Just keep on posting!
@mandykaren (2040)
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25 Jul 08
yes i have had some like that, but if dont accept the friendship i delete them when about a week
one of them, and i do not understand why not accepted, i see has done discussions days AFTER i sent friendship requests, so i really not understand why she not want to accept, since had responding to discussion of mine and i liked what say.. anyway if dont accept it after few days, i delete (i am trying to get to 500 posts at the moment, my next goal hehe, fed up of creating discussions and loosing them as i cna not copy n paste )
@Scorpionok (343)
• Brazil
25 Jul 08
i believe this is a normal thing to a site where u are always adding some people on your friend list xD
always u talk something in site and someone agree with u its almost sure one of u both add the other in your friend list =p
i'm starting now and already have one peding friend in my list xD
i hope dont have the same end but i think this will happen too much
