Dreaming of a friend and starting to feel something weird
By avalanzce
@avalanzce (124)
Philippines
July 24, 2008 8:47pm CST
She's my friend, my college classmate and bestfriend of the girl I liked. She's even my bestfriend's admirer until now, I never have a chance to talk to her for long, we're not even close enough...all the thing she can do is to make fun out of me.
I actually like the way she is, she's fine and beautiful, but no without love interest for real. How this could be happening that inside my dream I have this love affairs with her, were giving gifts, we're so much close and the girl really loves me. I don't even have a time to think about her and never thought to have a relationship on her.
Could anyone explain why I am dreaming this girl? I've gotten few times this month, even the months had passed, and it really bothers me that it is silly that I feel that I am really falling on her for just a dream but no way, he's my buddy's love interest. What's the meaning of this ? Weird eh?
3 responses
@tin_cierva (241)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
sometimes,dreams are the language of our subconscious mind. Whenever we sleep, our subconscious mind works, there are even scientist and mathematicians that get their formulas and equations when they're dreaming.. and subconscious mind consists of many things that results from all the things we do, even the emotions we don't know we already have.. may be somehow, your subconscious mind tells you that you like that girl, but your conscious mind tells you you don't because your aware of everything..
mine is just an opinion, but it may be true..
@avalanzce (124)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
yes, you might be right...recalling back when we were freshmen, I took the first glimpse behind her and said "this girl attracts my eyes" but after a few months NO!! her bestfriend attracts my heart... I like that girl but for just a friend....maybe it is something about my bestfriend who really likes her and my dream passes through about her, link a like perhaps..hehe dunno! ^^
@klamor20 (242)
• Canada
25 Jul 08
i believe sometime we get our priority wrong you may love her without knowing it is better you tell her before it is too late who knows how fells too. because someone makes fun of you does not mean she cannot love and if she say no. well you would have satisfied your conscience.
@avalanzce (124)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
I don't know if I'm late, maybe I guess I am.
I still have her contacts, I know her home address..but how I can?
my buddy is so inlove with her, and me maybe just a bit of crush. Whenever I see her there's nothing that I feel.. I can't love her just like this, it was all in a sudden to let her know how I feel, believing her that I've felt the love for her inside my dream. ^^
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
That's even complicated. Too good it's only in your dreams.
But it's making you think how did you dreams of her several
times. Maybe you start to look at her in different way. You
are the only one who knows what you really feel towards her.
@avalanzce (124)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Umm, look at her in different way....hmm..hehe I still don't get it why ^^
My feelings? I like her as a friend but I don't know that dreams came to make something feel towards her...yeah too complicated as it seemed O_o?
