Is it always at first and never been last???
By kissie34
@kissie34 (2294)
Philippines
July 25, 2008 3:19am CST
Some people are sweet at first, they always have time for you at first, serious to you at first, but why do some people changed after you love them so much?? Maybe all romantic moments, sweet and happy memories only happens at first and never last 
... Do you agree or disagree?? Share you thoughts and opinions in here...
... Do you agree or disagree?? Share you thoughts and opinions in here...1 person likes this
7 responses
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
2 Aug 08
I think if that thing happens that person does not really love you at all. He may be affectionate or feel something for you but it was not a true love. Well, that was just my opinion cause I believe that if its true love nothing will change no matter how long will you stay together it might change but surely its for the good like you will find out that you love him more than before.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
I agree with you that if there is really love in the relationship everything will be good and happy.. But sometimes, even both people love each other so much still there are some certain situations that there might be changes occur in their relationship because not all the time they will have the same moments.. Life is full of mystery we never know what will happen next and that is also the same in the relationship.. But of course, I will respect your opinion.. Happy posting!
Happy posting!1 person likes this
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Well, sometimes I am just thinking some possible reasons for me not to be discourage.. It might be maybe, this is one of the trials in the relationship that need to overcome and to accept and besides sometimes in our life, there are times that we are happy and there are times that we are in pain.. So, I think in the relationship it is just the same.. 
Thanks for sharing..
Thanks for sharing..
@mamuzo (225)
• South Africa
25 Jul 08
You sound like a hopeless romantic . . . I am too. I wish it was as the fairy tales where there's always a "Happily Ever After" ending to every story, but unfortunately it is not so. We live in a world filled with lots of pain and sorrow, good and bad people and sometimes this takes over the blissfulness of this life.
Well, to answer your question . . . these wonderful memories and moments do not last at all; especially if they are not cultivated or nurtured and if those that are involved are not meant to be.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Yes, that's true. The first is always intense. take
it for example if you buy a new item that you've been
waiting for so long to have. When you have it. You don't
want it to be apart from you. But as the months progress
your feelings for that item dwindle. Then here it comes
another thing you desire. Relationship most often happen
that way. But not all. Others last longer.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Yes, I agree with you.. We sometimes will not be contented of what the things we have.. Only at first we consider it as very important in our life but when we already have it and see something new and more beautiful than we have, we want that things too.. We just let it go that thing and live it as if they are not anymore valuable.. I am in a relationship for more than 3 years.. At first, we are very happy but as months and years passed there are so many things had changed.. I am not saying that I don't love him anymore, I do really love him even we are in the long distance relationship right now.. But there are some things that had changed and I know what happen before cannot be return to now because there are a lot of things had changed in our relationship.. But I'm hoping that our relationship will last..
Anyways, thank you for sharing..
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
I think that people who change after a while in a relationship are the people who really should not be in it. If you really love each other, even though some of the sweetness has already faded, it really wouldn't matter that much anymore because what you're really after now is just the presence and feeling that presence is more than enough.
@dextornap (333)
• India
25 Jul 08
I disagree. peoples are like that only. only we are changing our point of view. at start we love them by knowing thier positive attitude. But when we start to know him deeply we also get some negative points. so our attraction which we call as love will comes down . But its not true in all relationship. Some will become more stronger with time.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Well,maybe the reason why some relationship won't last long is because when you accept the negative side of that person.. Acceptance is really important.. I think if you don't accept that person for what he/she maybe, that is not true love.. Thanks for posting..
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@Tasche (138)
• Ethiopia
25 Jul 08
I do agree. Some people just love the thouight to be loved. They forget the person, they don`t listen anymore and they are not interested in anything you are doing.
Then you just sit there and listen and listen to his or her words and it feels as if you`ll never receive something back. Everybody is fed up after a while I guess.
The most shocking thing for me is that they don`t recognize it and if you try to talk about it, they say it is not true...my experience...
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Oh! That's not good... Yes, your right.. Some people when they got already the things that they want from you, they never listen anymore.. Every will changed even your life will also changed just because of them.. Why do people like this?? Aren't they thinking what we feel?? Anyways, thank you for sharing.. Have a great day!
