So my daughters gonna start Anger Management classes :-(

No. But our family has had some therapy in the past to help us all in recovery for what their dad and I had to go through kids on dysfunctional parents! GOOD FOR YOU! Family based therapy is hard, but worth the effort! Let dad complain all the way there AND abck home. In time and later he'll see that this was a good move for his daughter AnD the rest of your family, even though right now he protests! (Keep it up, "mom!" You are on the right track!)

I think it's great that you're taking a proactive stance in getting your daughter the assistance she needs. I had anger issues as a child, and I would have had a MUCH easier childhood if I'd had the skills to manage my anger and express myself more productively. I took some classes in the same area as anger management, and they did help me immensely. I wish my parents had intervened when I was younger. The first appointment with just you two, I'm assuming was to get the facts rather than the standard young person's 'I hate my parents and my life sucks' stuff. I hope your daughter has luck with her classes. Learning to communicate her anger and feelings better is something that will be invaluable to her even as an adult.

No, but I've had my son in therapy before. It is important for the parents to be involved also. We were but to a limited degree. I hope it helps your family and you can all get along better. It's nice to have harmony in the family. I know.