Why do some women refuse to color their hair?

@valeria1 (2721)
United States
July 26, 2008 2:53am CST
Just wanted to know if any of you have a clue why someone would keep their hair natural(grey) and not color their hair?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jul 08
valeria1 yes I have a lot of clues, I am 81and my hair is white so why should I dye it some ugly unnatural color. I am elderly and I like my white hair,it is almost silver and it suits my skin tones and my deep blue eyes. Why does everyone have to do a certain thing. Just because some women dye their hair so much it looks like straw is no reason for me to do so. my hair is in good condition and is soft and shiny. Let others follow the fashion trends, thats okay for them. I would rather not have platinum blond hair that looks like straw myself. lol lol lol.
@biggerb (2024)
• India
27 Jul 08
Wow! that's great.Its how you like yourself.I really appreciate that.You are right let others follow your fashion trend.Keep it up.
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Yes must to be very beautiful. Thank you for your input!
• United States
26 Jul 08
For me, it's not much of a choice. I started going gray while I was still in high school. That was pretty horrifying, so I went to an excellent salon to have my hair colored. We discovered in just a few minutes that I was highly allergic to hair coloring! Every ten years or so, I try what claims to be new, improved, gentle, etc. I'm still allercgic to something in that stuff. I'm lucky that my gray has grown in so well that people often ask where I get it colored that way! I have nothing against dying one's hair. I wonder, though, if I could, would I? The gray is realy nice, with a bit of the old darl brown at the neckline and in one or two other spots, so it looks like it was done very purposefully. I'm blessed that way.
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• United States
6 Aug 08
I'm hoping to get a photo and learn how to post it soon. In some ways, I'm a total dinosaur.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Seems you have a great hair there! Can I see a pic at anytime? Thank you for your answer!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 Aug 08
Valeria I can tell for myself why I do not prefer coloring. Firstly, My hair hasn't started to grey yet, good for me! lol.. Coloring my hair gives a dry, dusty look which I do not like and I love going against the tide all the time. And lastly, I do not like ppl concentrating on my hair instead on my looks. lol.. Hope you got my point.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 Aug 08
Dear today it doesn't require to be old to get your hair grayed. I know of teenagers who have grayed visibly. But certainly it looks different. I would rather grey gracefully than hide the white strands and also coloring destroys the natural texture. So, valeria, if you are coloring, conditioning is very important. Try to pamper your air with natural serum as often as you can. smiles...
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Oh lucky you! Yes I got your point and love the personality, yes makes sense, I thought I would never color my hair but I failed, I have so many greys and does not look good in me, some people have fantastic white or fantastic grey paterns unfortunatelly is not me, and plus my hair grows like crazy so maybe one day I will be able to just let it go! Thank you Mimpi!
@urbandekay (18278)
19 Aug 08
I don't know but maybe they don't hold with the vanity in dyeing their hair. all the best urban
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Yes could be that but I think some really do not like it or are alergic to it! If you can look the best why not?
@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
26 Jul 08
I could turn around and say why would someone keep dying their hair when it's full of nasty chemicals that can hurt you? Coloring (or not) your hair is a personal choice, no different than choosing long hair over short, getting a perm or straightening it. Why are you being so critical over something that is a personal choice?
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
26 Jul 08
I am not critical at all I just want to understand why. And yes is personal choice, I agree with you.
@Wizzywig (7847)
26 Jul 08
Simply because it IS natural and they are comfortable with it I guess. I can never understand why people pull their eyebrows out and then draw them on & I wouldnt want to have long nails or have my nose,eyebrows & other parts pierced but, its all a matter of personal preference. A full head of grey hair probably looks more attractive than black or brown with grey roots coming through - keeping up with the roots can be time consuming and expensive. Personally, I do dye mine - usually violet or cerise. I figure that everyone knows its dyed so why not go for something obvious?
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
26 Jul 08
Yes I think it is a matter of preference and that is all.
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@biggerb (2024)
• India
27 Jul 08
There are many reasons why some women do not color their hair.Some just like to age gracefully and they just let the grey hair be as it is and it looks very dignified too.For some women they are allergic to hair color so they cannot use anything, they have severe reactions, they have no choice but to let it be as it is. Some are so lazy they feel they just cannot take the trouble to color it,doing it by yourself is a big hassle, going to parlours or salons is pretty expensive.Some women are so old they have lots of wrinkles and skin sagging these women will color their hair black or some funny color it really does not make them look young but instead they look weird.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Yes seems you explained all thank you!
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
My mother used to tell me that hair dying is a waste of time and money. But now that she is already old and most of her hair is white, she adopted hair coloring to make her look young.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
19 Aug 08
It is true when it comes to getting older women tend to dye their hair, even though I love to see some paterns of hairs, white or even grey look great in some people.
@Rintis (646)
• India
19 Aug 08
There are some people who don't mind ageing hence don't color. Also I know many people not coloring their hair for the fear that they would end up losing hair. And some people look really good with grey hair.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
20 Aug 08
It is interesting thinking that they would loose hair by coloring! And yes I agree some people just look great with grey hair so they should wear it always but some are really scary!
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
when i was in college i really love to color my hair, but i noticed that my hair becomes brittle & its hard to touch lol now i dont want to color my hair anymore, & i go to the salon once in a while to have relax/hot oil or semi-rebond so that my hair will become good in shape hehehe..
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Wow that is great to know, thank you!
@MaasK1 (133)
• France
19 Aug 08
I am not a woman but what I can say Val is that they just want to go natural, I myself like some white hair but the grey ones are not that attractive for me as a man and today the fashion and all the people tendencies are to look fake.
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
19 Aug 08
I think all depends of how someone wears it. And yes today is all fake, hahahaha!