expectations

oh, friend.... same pinch give me sweet.. oh i underastand you are not in a mood to give sweets. i am of the same attuitude. very difficlut for me to digest that. i often get hurt because of friends and people arund me and have a hard time tio spend. its a bad feeling. i think it is because we try to be good an correct ourselevs and maintain ourselves as good people for the people around us to live better. by this it automatically creates a expectation that the people around also give us a good world to live in but that does not happen. people are selfish and wish that they get their things done. theya re concenrne about themselves. they don't have time to spare a thought for you or me. so we end up on the bad side receiving theser tough thnigs. if everybody realises the love we have for them and have time to think of us then these problems will not be there. but for the reality, i would say that you think that people are not good and then live. then you will be able to take that and when someone who cares for you an your views you will be able to accpet will happiness.

give more, expect less :)

Dear, The best way to keep you in good mood is... keep your expectations less as much as possible, and the other hand be ready for the worst from these people...when such incidents happen , and you are in a mind set ,ready for these things you will get less hurt...