Will you continue dating your bf/gf

@lynnchua (3412)
Singapore
July 26, 2008 9:50am CST
if you found out that he/she is a single parent after dating for a period of time? or will you just have a clean break up with him/her just because he/she have a kid.
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chenmeiyi
@chenmeiyi (972)
• China
26 Jul 08
As long as he is the only one in my heart i think i'll never give up giving my love to him,no matter what happened to him.
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lynnchua
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
26 Jul 08
Ya! but what if the kid don't like you??
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chenmeiyi
@chenmeiyi (972)
• China
26 Jul 08
spare no efforts to please her or him.
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reckon21
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
If my partner or lover is a single parent and she didn't tell me about it,I will be feeling betrayed. But if I really love her truly then I'm willing to forgive her and accept her past because i love her and that's all that matter.
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lynnchua
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
26 Jul 08
Loving her is important and remember to love her kid too.
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cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
29 Jul 08
YES but it would be great if ewe know earliar
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
30 Jul 08
u r right but if u share truth at start the relation get more stronger and u dont have any hidden fear in mind take care
lynnchua
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
30 Jul 08
Ya totally agree, but some people just won't tell maybe because they are not sure about the relationship and thought that they will tell later.
lisaradgirl
@lisaradgirl (404)
• United States
26 Jul 08
I am a single mom and I have been on the other side of this situation. I get really offended when guys say they would never date a girl with a kid yet they are totally flirting with me. I tell them I have a kid and then add a few other choice words which I can not post here. I would think that anyone who is a single parent would be up front about their child/children. It's not something to hide or be ashamed of. Your child should be one of the first things you talk about when you are talking to a new person. Your child should be one of the most important things in your life and it is a topic that should come up way before the first date.
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Valenas
@Valenas (1507)
• United States
26 Jul 08
That situation shouldn't happen in the first place. A single parent should tell the other person if they have a child or not if they're going to get in a relationship. That is the first thing that someone else should know. I can kind of understand it from both sides. A person should love another person for who they are, and a kid shouldn't change how they feel towards that person. But, on the other hand, sometimes a person just isn't ready to take the responsibility for a kid.