Kids and Cell phones

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This week was my youngest daughters 12th birthday. On the top of her birthday list was a cell phone. This is not a child that has a lot of activities, nor does she spend much time alone. She pitched a fit because I told her no she didn't need a cell phone. I told her I didn't care how big a fit she threw she wasn't getting a cell phone period. So she goes to her fathers a few days before her birthday. Her father had a 'secret' cell phone (I won't go into the reasons for the secret part) that I had put on my cell phone account for him. Now our daughter new it was a secret and she knew why it was a secret, but she was so determined to have a cell phone she went up to her dad in front of the person the phone was secret from, and asked for it. Made such a big deal out of it he had to give her the phone to shut her up. Now he can no longer have the phone, and my daughter has it. I think with the sneaky, manipulative way she got the phone it should be taken away fromm her. I have another line that the younger kids use when they have after school activities or when they are away from home but the phone does not "belong" to no one it's for who ever has a need for it. Only the high schoolers get thier own cell phone, when they drive they have one not before. This child has already lost two pre-paid cell phones her father gave her, I didn't approve of those and I don't approve of her having this one. Not only do I believe she is to young and has no need for one, I also don't think her manipulation should be rewarded with the phone. So mylotter friends when do you think a child should carry a cell phone of thier own? Do you think a child that uses manipulation should get rewarded with the item they manipulated?