Betrayal
By sharie16
@sharie16 (2212)
Philippines
July 27, 2008 12:28am CST
Does a friend of yours betrayed you? You seem to trust her everything only to realize that she betrayed you? Have you encounter one? How would you approach these people whom you trust and whom also destroyed you? Would you ever give a benefit of a doubt to trust these people again?
5 responses
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
27 Jul 08
Well my cousin who I had considered to be my other half betrayed me when we were 15 and even though we were young that wound of trust has yet not been sealed. I have tried to trust her but it just ends up the same because she starts acting the same way and I really don´t want to fall in the same hole. When it happened and I confirmed that she betrayed me I confronted her directly even though I knew it would change alot of things I knew I had to do it because then I would just be in denial and I would it get any where other than being stepped on. Once the trust is lost it is so hard to regain but not impossible. Next time you just know to be more cautious.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
Yeah. I agree with you! Trust is very hard to regain. Persons who usually betrayed us will always be a subject of betrayal. We always have a doubt on that person that he/she will do it again the second time around. Thanks for sharing some thoughts...
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@dhevasena (144)
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28 Jul 08
Thank god i never had that experiance.. i have few friends and i keep them and i know they would not betray me in any situation!
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@hate3rdparties (20)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
I think each person is unique... If a friend betrays me then she is not a true friend... I simply forget that i knew them.. Maybe in time i would forgive them but that's it... it doesn't mean i trust them again...
We can all find someone who will be true to us.. Sometimes we have found them we just didn't know...
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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13 Aug 10
I have had three friends that have betrayed my trust and it is when you get to know that they are the ones that have betrayed your trust,you know never to trust them with any of your other buisness.I think that i tend not to let them know that i know that they have been caught,as this way i get to find out who else has also betrayed it.Once bitten,twice shy is my motto.
