40 year old virgin.

Why do u think that is better to save yourself for the marriage. What is the point in this? What will be the difference if you are a virgin until you marry. You will have no experience at all.

Don't change--until you get married, that is! Some lucky man is going to have that special place in your life--and he'll not just be lucky because you're a virgin, either, but because you're such a sweet, caring person who is always working to make this world a better place! On top of that, you're so talented in so many ways! Keep saving yourself for that wonderful guy who will really appreciate a beautiful treasure like you!