Would you accept to your home the child of your husband with his dead mistress?

i don't really know, but most probably no. if he wants the kid, we could separate legally...

i do not really understand what are you saying

If you really love the person you would also loved anything that is with his life. That is you should learn to love his family and moreso his child. That is a part of him that you should accept in a relationship.

I definitely would. I love children and it doeant matter to me with whom he would have had it with. There is no fault of the child in this. Yes, its his father's fault but the child can not be punished for his father's fault. Whatever i have to clarify and think about relationship with my husband would be a different story. But for the child, if it dont have any other care taker, i would surely come forward and consider it as my own child and will bring it up with all my love and affection