irritated

yes becuse when i dont say it back they get all mad and then hell be like ohh so you dont love me no more and all that bull crap.

No..I never faced such kind of situation till now..If I face such a situation. then I will say that I love him...Because I hate loosing friends...

Well not really Riya…as it is my hubby is that typical silent type who don’t believe in wasting energy on useless words. I cant actually recall any time when he has said he loves me, except during lovemaking! So anyway, most of the time, I am going like ‘I love you so much, you don’t love me at all…’ and so and so and he just sits there doing his own work and gives me an indulgent glance which seems to say ‘so again you start off with your crap’

It's natural. Being partners you need to complement one another. But there are also times that you do it just to end the argument. it doesn't really mean that you don't love the person anymore, it's the mood that sets everything.

yep.. i did it 1 time to stop the argument.. cause if i don't do it.. i know that things will get much worse..=]

I've had that done to me before. We were fighting alot. It doesn't feel very good cause you can tell. Not just from the tone but the situation you're in. Do you do that often?

I would never ever say something like that just to please someone. For me to say I love you to someone, I have to MEAN IT, and those are the only circumstances in which I've ever said it, thank goodness.