Prayers for a Friend

@carolbee (16230)
United States
July 28, 2008 10:45am CST
Morning all fellow myLotters, I need a big favor from all of the myLot community. I have a very very dear friend who evidently experienced a stroke or bleed in the brain. Test results are not complete just yet. This happened Saturday night. I did visit her twice yesterday for short periods since she's in ICU and have to make visits brief. Am leaving shortly again to go visit and see if there is any improvement today. She's 5 years younger than I am and it just breaks my heart to see a vibrant, fun loving lady just lay in bed and do virtually nothing but talk a little bit. She can't seem to retrieve everyday words which tears me apart. She has a family and has just recently become a grandma for the first time. I am at my wits end and need any prayers for Joyce. She's a big part of my life. Thanks so much in advance, carolbee
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28 responses
• India
29 Jul 08
i pray to god to make ur friend fit and fine as before.. also , ..god will listen to the prayers of u, who is such a caring friend of her.. believe in god.. he will surely help you.. he is the greatest and kindest of all.. best of luck to ur friend for speedy recovery.. all the best and take care of her.. ***god bless****
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Ronnie, thank you so much for your kind comment. You are exactly right and prayers will help her recover. Thanks so much for responding to my discussion.
• India
3 Aug 08
do tell me when ur friend recovers fully.. bye take care.... ****************
@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I will most definitely keep Joyce (and you) in my thoughts and prayers hon. I really hope she pulls out of this soon and gets better. Big hugs to you hon.....Carryl
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thank you so much, Carryl. She is doing better each day. Thanks for responding.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Joyce is in my prayers. Hopefully she will recover quickly and completely. Sometimes it takes time but I have seen some people recover so that you would never known they had a stroke.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I saw my father recover from a stroke and heart attack and he was much older. He made a 100% recovery. I am hoping my friend will do the same. Thanks so much for the words of encouragment and responding to this discussion.
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@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Prayers headed your way for sure Carolbee for your friend and all of her family and friends. I have a friend who was driving and had a stroke and she is doing really good today and getting better each day. Wishing Joyce a speeday recovery.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I sure do hope she comes out of this 100% but doesn't look good, according to her sister. I am so sad. Thank you for your well wishes and responding to this discussion. I really appreciate it.
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@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I still wish mylot would give us an edit button on here. My last sentence should have been a Wish to Joyce for a SPEEDY recovery. Sorry about the typo.
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@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Thank you for the best response. I sure hope your friend is making a good recovery.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 Jul 08
i said a prayer for her. maybe my experience w/this will make you feel more hopeful. in 2000 i has a brain aneurysm. they didn't expect me to live, said most people that had them didn't even make it to the hospital & if they did live it was usually in a vegataive state.well, i made it, went back to work & worked 5 more years till i has a stroke. i'm doing o.k. not like i use to be but am able to live alone. hope this encourages you & your friend. hope she gets better.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Thank you so much for the prayer. It means alot to me and her, as well. Am so sorry to hear you experienced the same problem. So glad to hear you are ok. I will in turn say a prayer for you. I had a major head injury 7 yrs. ago and am 100% except I did lose my sense of taste and smell. The alternative would have been a disaster. I am so thankful to be alive and well. Thanks so much for responding.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 Jul 08
thanks for the prayer. glad you are 100%, you are blessed to. good luck to your friend.
28 Jul 08
Hi carolbee, So sorry to hear about your dearest friend joyce, it is very painful wheen things this happen to someone you love. I will pray for her and send some healing light to her and to you.God bless. Love Tamara
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Awww thanks so much, Tamara. She's a little better today and that makes me think the power or prayer is working. Thanks for the sweet response to this discussion.
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
31 Jul 08
Strokes are very omplicated condition, a friend of mind visited me today and had some similar complication suffered by his father-your friend truely deserves our prayers-I will place in my prayers this day on hoping for a steady recovery
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
31 Jul 08
It's now 6 days later and they are moving her to a rehab center. It's going to be awhile before she fully recovers. I visit her everyday. Thanks so much for responding to this discussion.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
30 Jul 08
I sincerely pray she comes back after a speedy recovery and good test results. God help her get well fast!
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I've been to visit everyday. She has memory problems but think she will bounce back faster because of her age. Thanks so much for responding.
@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, Joyce. I know a little bit about how hard it is to see a friend in such a horrible condition. But prayer will definitely help. She's being prayed for right now. You're a good friend, Carolbee. Stay peaceful, as best you can anyhow.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thanks, gtargirl. My friend, Joyce, is very special and my heart breaks for her but in time she should recover. I will be there for her whatever she may need during her time of recovery and beyond. Thanks so much for your kind words and responding to my discussion.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
28 Jul 08
I will say a special prayer for your friend Joyce. I hope she fully recovers, I am also lighting a candle for her.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Thank you, Howard. You are such a sweetie. She needs all the prayers she can get to make a full recovery. Thanks for responding to this discussion.
• United States
29 Jul 08
i will pray for her, I ;ost my dear friend Rosemary to a surprise heart attack three weeks ago, My prayers are with your friend and also with you
@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
3 Aug 08
Prayers and well wishes from our family to you and your friend! It sounds like she is improving and that is wonderful! I am hoping for good news and speedy recovery!
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
3 Aug 08
Thank you so much for the well wishes and prayers. She's bothered with depression now but that's to be expected. Thanks for responding.
@ambawa (1)
• Zimbabwe
29 Jul 08
Let's believe and trust the Lord that she is going to be healed. The bible says by the stripes of Jesus Christ we were healed (Isaiah 53 v 1-6). All things are possible to them that believe. Jesus is able Mtt 9 v 34-36. Father in the name of Jesus we pray for the complete and total restoration of the health of Joyce, make her complete and whole in the body, soul and spirit in the name of Jesus. AMEN!
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thank you so much for the kind prayer, ambawa. You brought tears to my eye3s with your response. Thank you for responding to this discussion about my dear friend.
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Hi Carolbee, I'm so sorry for you and your friend. You both will be in my prayers. Be strong and God Bless. leenie
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thank you, leenie50. Prayers will help her recover. Thank you for responding to my discussion.
@MOMMASAM (1004)
• United States
29 Jul 08
OMG, Joyce is added immediately to my prayer list. sometimes the brain swelling shrinks and the patient returns to "normal". it might have been a very slight stroke. i pray this is the problem. it is heart-wrenching to see changes in our special friends. i will pray for you too, carol. this is awful to see and experience for you as well.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
She did have a stroke. No warning prior to this happening other than a headache. Thank you so much for your prayers and responding to my discussion.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Well, I certainly hope that all ends well with your friend. I will surely keep her in my prayers. Keep us posted.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Eventually she will be back to normal because she is younger. Thanks so much for responding to my discussion and sending prayers her way.
@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
I will pray for her to get recover very soon. Keep the faith we have inside and surely we'll succeed whatever we get into.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thank you, anex08. All the prayers are helping. She is doing a little better each day. Thanks for responding.
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
My prayers are with you. I understand all about this experience. I have just brought my grand-uncle to the hospital last Sunday because of the same thing but his was a massive one. He expired today, Tuesday at 11:30 am. (PST) I pray that your friend will do recover and be that same vibrant lady that you always know...
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I am so sorry to hear you lost your uncle. May he rest in peace. Thanks for responding with your kind thoughts and prayers.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
I will include her in my prayers. May she will recovered faster. Don't worry God will help her. Just believe in him.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
And you are right. God will help her. Thanks so much for responding.
@crazy286 (269)
• India
29 Jul 08
I can understand your situation friend. I feel so sorry for the lady Joyce who is young and fun loving as you said. Dont worry. God will help her for sure and she will soon recover from the position. All our wishes are with her and her family in this tough time. May God bless her and help her out. let her know that she has prayers of 100 thousand people with her.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thank you, crazy286. Your kind response and prayer will help with her recovery. Thank you so much for responding to my discussion.
• Indonesia
29 Jul 08
I hope God give her the best. You too should give her a full support OK?
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I've been to visit her everyday and will continue until she leaves the hospital. Yes, she has my total support. I will help her when she gets home as well. Thanks for responding.