friend or enemy?
By iejaim
@iejaim (4)
Malaysia
July 28, 2008 3:59pm CST
Do you feel that your closed friends was really your true friends? think it twice.i had a friend and get closed with her since my first year of my study.she is older than me, so i respects her as my friend and also as my sister.we always spent time together and in the eyes of other people, we are twin. but the GOD give me greater ability in the study. i always get the better result than her.however, i helped her as much as i can and she appreciated it.i like to befriends with her because of her attitude.she is a soft spoken and never get angry without any reasons. one day, in the final year of my study i got know that she always talk at my back. i felt really disapointed and a fight occured between us. at last i know that she didn't like with my good result.after that time, we do not talk anymore.now, i had finished my study and waiting for my graduation day. but she was still studying because of the bad result in the final year.i never prays for her failure but it comes by itself.
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7 responses
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
10 Mar 13
You can only be hurt by your loved ones. So the closer your friend is the more possible he/she can hurt you. But before they hurt you, he/she is still your friend.
I think no matter in what kind of condition, we still should have trust people or we will become animals. To avoid hurt, we should make ourselves stronger not keep our friend away from us.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
10 Mar 13
always friend for sure and make sure you keep your enemies far away for the benefit of doubt always
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
Friend are hard to know I guess. It takes time really to know if that friend is just a waste or just a good ridance. Friendship really comes and go with our life. As long as you help, that feels good! It'sn ot your lose it's her lose cause it's to hard to have a friend who are real. Have a nice day to you!
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I am sorry to hear that she ended up being your enemy especially since ya'll were so close,and I am sure that had to be very painful,but the way I see it you do not need friends like that,I went through a situation like that once,and a guy who I thought was my friend,ended up being a liar,and he lied to everyone,so I ended our friendship ,and after he got lied to himself,he realized he had done everyone wrong,and changed so now we are friends again,but I do not trust him fully because sometimes it is hard to tell if he has changed or not.
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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29 Jul 08
Hello iejaim,
I think that when you started to get good results she began to get very jealous of you and starts resenting you that is why she talked behind your back and now she has lost a good friend in you, don't worry maybe she will come round and say she is sorry and you might be friends again, who knows?
Tamara
