how to start conversation with a girl????

Nepal
July 29, 2008 4:09am CST
hi every one.... i have a girl in my class and i love her very much... she has a boy friend and she already knows that i love her and i haven't spoken a word with her...... can any one help me with this how do i start conversation with her???? i got her cell no. from my frens is it all right if i called her?? what should i start with???plz help..
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@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
30 Jul 08
the best way is to ask her how her day is going thts always a good way to start any conversation. theres just one thing tht i dont undersand is how can u say tht u love her when u havent even talked to her or dated her, love is very strong word to use on some one u really dont know. any ways if she gave u her number its ok to call her and talk to her, it not like u got it form some one else. if u have the same class then talk to her about something tht has to do with the class. theres alot of different way u can start a conversation with her. the thing is not to let the fact tht she a girl stump u for find a way to talk to her, shes just another person. can u talk to girls tht u have no interest in getting with cuz if u can then its just like tht.
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• Nepal
30 Jul 08
i m sori for that i used the word love but i didn't got her no. frm her.. i got it frm my frens and i also don't know that if i should really call her or what and how do i start my conversation....
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• Philippines
29 Jul 08
Just smile at her and say hi, then introduce yourself.
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• Nepal
29 Jul 08
its really hard........
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@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
That's quite a toughie. First off, I suggest that you not contact her for now. Ask it from her yourself. Just be patient and keep it fair. No offense, but she already has someone. Try befriending her. I can just speculate but it may be enough for you just to have her company. Balance out your mind and your heart and you'll do just fine. Just talk to her casually. Don't try to think too hard on what to say. I don't consent though that you get in the middle of them. I'm not sure though, is she already your friend? Try not to avoid her as well. It could affect your friendship and she may not appreciate it if you stick yourself too much as well. Give her the space she needs. Be natural and honest. Take care my friend.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Start with one hello. That's the beginning in every pleasant conversation. If she smile and return back the greetings that means she's in good mood. So, start talking. Text message is okey,just don't over do it. Good luck.
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30 Jul 08
First of all believe in the power of prayer, all great decisions in life is best started with a wholehearted prayer. Take the coversation thing in a step by step manner. First begin by sending her a good quotation via sms, and make sure that it is good enough to make her reply to you. If she doesn't know you're number, she will be curious enough to ask who you are. Then it is not bad to act mysteriously, mosly girls love myterious guys(remember that curiosity kills the cat!). When it's time to reveal your identity try to have some white lies (try inventing a problem and ask her for a little help). There you have it a good start conversation with the girl you love. But remember that we girls are numb, we don't take body or other languages as a fact, unless it is being spoken out. goodluck!
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thats a tough one. First thing though: don't call her yet. My guess is that it would weird her out since you haven't talked her, and she wasn't the one who gave you her number. You have to start up a conversation with her "Do you understand this homework?" or "This teacher is horrible!" just say something to start talking to her. Relax, and don't be nervous. Start talking to her only as a friend in order to get to know her. If you're still interested in her then wait. Maybe she'll break up with her boyfriend. But if they care about each other...you'll find another.
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I like the first response to your question. I would have to say that you like her a lot because if you havent really talked to her before then you really dont know her personality so you do not know if you love her or not. I would say hi and ask something about school to start things off. Then ask if it is okay if you call her. If you got the number from your friend does she know that it was suppose to be from you? Because if she does then she has probably been waiting for the call
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
Well how do you know that you love her? Maybe you just like her a lot and think that you love her. Well if you plan to talk to her try with small things like school stuff or things that you know she likes or even her opinions. But honestly my tip for you would be if she has a boyfriend right now then just aim to be her good friend. It won't be a good thing if they broke up because of you now, would it? Hang in there dude love comes when you least expect it so don't rush into things.
• China
29 Jul 08
You should know that how much she loved her boy friend.If they love each other,i subject you give up for you may be hurt her.Of course , if you make sure she have the loving with you ,you shoud courageously express yours felling!
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@harrywood (113)
• China
31 Jul 08
My suggestion is: Try your best to contact with more girls,then decide which one on earth is your real lover.Lovers get to know each other only when they contact with each other.There are many ways you can contact with a girl:a smile, a "hi",a short message,a phone call,a letter. donot just say you LOVE a girl without knowing her much. You try this, and you will know better:there are plenty more fish in the sea.