loss of unborn
By kayrod2
@kayrod2 (1304)
Australia
July 29, 2008 7:14am CST
I just want to thank friends here for their thoughts and prayers for my daughter with her pregnancy problems. Unfortunately, her little 'jellybean', as she called it, didnt make it, and has gone with the angels. She is staying strong, working through her grief. It was early pregnancy, but still a part of her that she had given life to. I wish i could be there by her side, but she needs space, and i will give it to her.
Thanks again
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10 responses
@Darkwing (21583)
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29 Jul 08
Oh my goodness, Kay. I was so sure she was going to be ok. I'm so very sorry to hear this news. I'm burning a candle for the little Angel Jellybean, that her journey to the Summerland be smooth and happy, and also for your daughter, that she might find the strength to cope with her sad loss. Also for you, my dear friend... you need some energies too.
Yes, it was early pregnancy but we bond very quickly with our unborn... this is such a sad time for her. You're right, my dear friend... she does need her space but I'm sure you're there for her whenever she needs you.
Huggggggggggggs and Brightest Blessings. xxx
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@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
31 Jul 08
Thanks darkwing. and thank you so much for your card, it was beautiful. she isnt ready to talk yet and needs her space, which i am giving. she sends me sms's to let me know she is ok. i am sending her a beautiful card and a unicorn with a guardian angel to let her know i am with her and sending my love to her.
your sent energies and burning candle and hugs are much appreciated, and a great comfort to me. i wish i could be by her side, giving her comfort, but i am there in spirit. she has just signed on msn, and said hi, so i will get going and talk to her. Best wishes to you and take care, my dear friend
xxxx
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@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
31 Jul 08
Thanks lakota. she lives a fair distance away from me, but i have let her know i will come down if she wants. but at this time she just needs her space, she sends me sms's to let me know she is ok. its a hard time, and i am there for her when she needs me.
best wishes to you and take care
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
31 Jul 08
sounds ok but if it was my daughter I would be ther in a sec.
I was here as we live together so I could hold her over the lost of the 2 she had in 3 months time now we have a beautiful Child called Cheyenne she is 3 now and talks up a storm so tell daughter she can still have one down the road hugs and blessings to you both!
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Oh my I'm so sorry for her loss...I've miscarried 2 times and even though some ppl dont "get it" it IS still a terrible loss and somehting that can be very difficult to deal with...My heart goes out to her....
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Aug 08
Hi Kay...such a sad time for you. O so hope your daughter is feeling a little better by now. Such a terrible loss must leave a big empty aching place in one's heart. I've never had to cope with anything like this.
Kay I didn't even know you had an older family. It must be hard sometimes for you to be so far away. I know what that is like. Brightest blessings my friend.
@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
4 Aug 08
she is getting a bit better. she is going through a lot, and it is hard being away out here. but i am going down this weekend to spend time with her, which i think she needs. i was lucky enough to not go through it either, maybe if i had i would know what she is going through. i have only talked to her on msn, she doesnt want to talk to anyone on the phone and wont answer it. but she knows i am coming down and seems fine with it.
best wishes to you and take care
@nini89 (670)
• India
31 Jul 08
Thank you for your response, I too will pray to god to give her strength to come out of her trauma and to lead a normal life. We all will pray to have a good energetic little jellybean for next time. Have a nice day and take are of yourself and your daughter.
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@marknicki (65)
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2 Aug 08
(((hugs))) to you and your daughter. i have had 3 miscarriages, 2 in early pregnancy and one recently in late pregnancy.
it is such a painful time. all your hopes and dreams gone. everywhere you look, there are pregnant ladies everywhere. reminding you what you have lost.
i am taking one day at a time, they say time heals, you never forget, but the pain eases as time goes by.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
29 Jul 08
Oh Kay I am so sorry for the Loss and I know what you are going through as her Mum, I know what she is going through, I went through it with my Girl 4 years ago. I am so sorry
I am sending you both big Hugs and Love with this
@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
31 Jul 08
thanks gabs. the hugs and love are greatly accepted. it is a hard time. i have got her a beautiful card and a little unicorn and guardian angel to send to her. She isnt talking at the moment, just sends me sms's to let me know she is alright and will ring when she is ready. I just keep sending her my love and support.
Best wishes to you, and take care
xxxxx
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@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I am so sorry for your daughter's loss, and yours. I lost a pregnancy, my first, and it was difficult even though it was early. You are right, she needs space, and time. Nothing anyone can say can make it hurt less. Again, I am sorry.
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@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
29 Jul 08
Thanks for your kind words, chick. I was lucky enough to never go through it, so it is hard to know how she is feeling. I know i feel a terrible loss. It would of been my first grandchild, and my heart aches for my daughter with what she is going through.
Best wishes to you and take care
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@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of the unborn child. Any loss is difficult, God had this happen for a reason. The little one will not have to suffer any harm or danger, the baby is in heaven.
May God bless her in his time with another little "jellybean"
God bless you and your family
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Awww.. This is so sad. I could not imagine it. I hope she makes it through okay and is able to get pregnant and carry again. I always believe that God has a plan.
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