if your "other" hid something from you would you wonder?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
July 29, 2008 1:53pm CST
ok there has been a few times when we have been talking and she would ask me something and it would start up a conversation and the question would come out, like do you have anything you need or want to tell me since we are being honest, and i honestly have nothing to hide and i haven't and i was like no, do you have anything you would like to tell me or need to tell me and there has been two different times when she was like well there is this one thing, and i was like ok what is it...and she told me both of them and they weren't all that bad and i didn't get upset and i was like why didn't you just tell me about it and she made up something(i think one time it was when a guy hit on her and ask her out and she said no, and another time was when she gave a guy a ride to his graduation)and i have told her time after time to not hide things from me that i would respect her honesty and i couldn't get upset if she was straight up with me, to just be honest...so what else do i do from here to make sure she doesn't hide things from me...thanks for taking the time to read my discussion and i hope that you all have a great day!
2 responses
@greenglitterturtle (2750)
• United States
29 Jul 08
my sister has given me chocolate turtles to hide from her husband. she bought them to eat at special times for a pick-me-up when in a great need for one. she said if he knew about them he'd eat them up in one sitting. then i heard he had done something and told the kids not to tell her. i don't know what it is, but i heard her say, YOU TOLD THE KIDS NOT TO TELL ME?
@greenglitterturtle (2750)
• United States
29 Jul 08
in some cases there are people that are naturally secretive. they aren't doing wrong, they just aren't big on telling people things. then when they are married it can be taken wrong.
@kezabelle (2974)
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29 Jul 08
If she feels she has to hide it from you then you both need to look closely as to why she felt she couldnt tell you when it happened, I think if you start there and make sure she 100% knows it doesnt matter then you can move forward.
