how can i discuss something when it turns into fighting?

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ok usually when i have a problem i like to just sit down and talk about it and not get into a fight about it because to me its not worth fighting over honestly, there are very few things that i actually will fight over...and whenever there is something wrong and i try and talk to her about it it just always turns into a fight because she starts getting upset and talking about im always telling her what she does wrong(and thats not true, because i ask her one night i said, is that so, she said yes, i said wahat about all of these times that i tell you how beautiful you are and how much you mean to everyone and all the good things you do and how great you are)she said well i guess that your right, im sorry...but then the next time we fight its the same old stuff and we don't really fight that often and when we do its always over the same stuff...i just really want an answer...how can i discussi something when it always turns into a fight? thanks for taking the time to read my discussion and i hope that you all have a great day!