What do you argue about most with your spouse/boyfriend?

I am not sure if I can really answer this question as we don't really fight all that much. When we do both of our tempers flair but at the same time we don't take it to far. Usually it's just over a simple misunderstanding, like the way he meant something or the way I meant something. I hope it always stays that way for us! I also hope that you husband will ease up and just let the money that's supposed to come in, come in. You mylot and I'm sure the money goes to the bills and things that are needed, remind him that you'll both always find a way to make ends meet! Good Luck! Have a wonderful day!

‘who cares!’ …both my hubby and me think that it’s the best way to deal with salaries and do tell your hubby that! One can never keep up with the Joneses without getting sick (either mentally or physically or both) and the rat race certainly is the path to the early grave you mentioned. I am completely with you on this…if the bills are being met and a tidy sum is there as a back-up for a rainy day, what more do you want from life? There’s so much to enjoy other than money… on our part, we rarely fight because for us, its always seeking opinion of each other and discussing the pros and cons of any situation. Just like now, my hubby is thinking of changing companies for promotional reasons. He’s only 35 and before 40, he wants to settle in a higher tier. We are not rushing into it though, he’s looking at options and at home we are always discussing the companies, opportunities, job pressure and money. We have a long way to go in life and a little more money is required for our retirement phase. But like many of his peers, we don’t believe in job-hopping just to increase the paycheck.

That stinks- I hope he doesn't work 7 days a week ! I'd say the thing we argue about the most is my daughter- He thinks I spoil her too much and let her get away with murder. (Which I don't). He is a lot stricter and can't take a joke when she plays with him. Other than that we get along great!

Usually what I don't really like is that my girlfriend doesn't say really what she feels. I'm hating it! What she does is to give me a cold shoulders and just stares at me. This morning I really flared up and shouted at her and really sorry with what I said. She told me about my time, that we don't have time with each other anymore. It's like she feels emptiness and feels alone. I love my job very much and she told me that I don't want to compete with your time. Finanacially with the high prices she even look for a job and was accepted just not to tell me just to lesser my problems and to make all ends meet. It's like she feels that i did not give her importance anymore with my work. It's what a life! She was just letting me go and trying to explain what I feel that it's just easy for her to say it just like that. Partly It's my fault lately I did not give her my time when I come home it's still work I thought she will understand me but for her it was a big deal. Feeling sorry now! Have a nice day!

My boyfriend is an idiot so we argue about a lot of things lately (can u tell we're fighting now? LOL). If he's had a bad day at work, all of a sudden he hates the world and nothing I say is right. If one of his friends does something that upsets him, he gets into a funk again and once more... everything I say he has to disagree with just to have someone to argue with. The only way I can get him to quit being such a jerk is to treat him like total crap and talk to him like he's a worthless idiot. Then all of a sudden it's roses and champagne. Odd, no? I hate having to be the b word with him but lately it's the only way to get him to see that I'm not the rest of the world and that his beef isn't with me. Men... go figure!

We argue about his job too, because of how many hours he works. But you already know that whole story, lol.

Our arguments are getting less and less, and much less emotional. I'm a confrontational bulldozer who likes to resolve things quickly, and my husband is a really laid back guy who likes to sleep on things. We both have occasioal problems ecause I have managed to make my life extremely stable, but recent events has made his kind of topsy-turvy, so the wo of us are working ou a balance between sitting back and letting people take advantage of us, and steamrolling everyone in our path before they have a half a chance. LOL

Ours is the opposite. I would like for him to work! He works from home, but not much. I work full time and do alot of other things. Drives me crazy!

Hello dear beauty queen. After reading about your discussion, I have to say that the main problem between my wife and I is our great concern to our teen son, who is rebellious for his age and we have found that he has changed a lot. Each time when we talk to him about his study and about his being engaged in puppy love, he would become impatient with us...

we always argue about my health...i am sick right now and undergoing chemotherapy..most of the time he always mumbles that i don't eat vegetables on which he always say and i know that he is right for saying so that it will be good for my health... i hate hearing him when he tell people how hard headed i am that i don't eat vegetables...we both know i eat some of the veggies, not all veggies i can eat but there are lots of veggies that i do love to eat...he always irritates me when whatever sentence he say he will never forget to mention that i'm a hard headed woman i don't eat veggies...then i get pissed and we fight... another would be when i got new ideas in mind that i wanted to do and when i confide it to him he disagree...he will fight his way of disagreeing..it always seems he knows best all the time and that tick me off everytime...

The most that we agrue about is his family taking advantage of him I get so upset when they treat him like he owes them something if he tells them no about something then he is the bad guy and they treat him like crap and he lets them treat him this way without ever saying a word to them. You have a great night.

mostly it's about money, unpaid bills, and lots of things

Most of the time, my spouse and I argue on how we discipline our children. I'm more patient and understanding with regards them. I usually just tell my children to learn the lesson to avoid making mistakes the next time. But sometimes,children keeps repeating the same mistakes and my husband being the disciplinarian cannot tolerate it. So, we argue if it's right or wrong to punish children. Another source of our argument is whenever he gets messy with his stuff like his cd's or his phone, he keeps misplacing them.

Right now my boyfriend and I are arguing most about buying a new house. I am really ready to take our relationship to the next level and start making a home with one another and I know we are both sick and tired of throwing money down the drain with renting. We both want the house but we're arguing about the types of upgrades we want to put in it but then also how much we can afford and how far the distance is from his job and if he'll be able to make enough money to pay half the mortgage. It's not fun but I know we'll get through this! And I agree with you, I don't understand men either!

Hi friends, I often argue with my girlfriend for very less or no reason. Don't think that our relation has been filled up with bitterness, in fact we are very happy couple indeed and can not even think of together apart. I feel, a little tiff always helps in adding spice in relations. We often argue over small issues like not giving missed calls or something but actually we understand each other very well.

Money. or lack of it is the biggest problem that we get in arguments about. Since I am disabled I am not working and get a monthly check from SSI. But my wifes check varies each month from her job. But she is a spendaholic and her check is gone the day she gets it. She is just now starting to set money aside for gas for the rest of the month. So this is our major argument causer.

We don't often argue that much and when we do it's over something silly or a misunderstanding. It's usually when we are both tired and cranky and just nit pick at everything LOL

The thing we argue most about is, he don't like going places with me. I told him I'm getting tired of going places by myself, its no fun. I can't even get him to go to the movies with me, he just wants to stay home all the time, which I understand that, he works hard all week, and when he's off he wants to get some rest, but lets at least do something once in awhile. Now if his buddy calls him and wants to go fishing or go somewhere, he's out the door, I don't understand that, I tell him, I'm your wife, your not married to your buddy. I'll go fishing with him anytime he wants to go, I like being with him, but he won't go with me anywhere. We get into big arguements about that. Now I'm to where I don't even try to ask him to go anywhere anymore, I know he'll just say no, and it makes me mad when he will go with his friend instead, it makes me think he don't want to be with me. I'll never understand men either...lol.

I think hands down, we argue most about communication or lack there of. With all the modern conveniences, we don't communicate very well. Either one of us may send an email and for various reasons not respond or call one another and not answer the call. I think we argue over the silliest of things. My mind tells me that means we aren't very compatible.

a lot of things to argue. like financial, resonsiblity, work and honesty. most of husband are cheaters. you can count on your fingers who are not. i really dont know why. i dont believe in the reasons of having a wife who is not good in bed or not beautiful anymore. its so unfair! because the wife is always there to supports their needs. keeping the house properly organized. takes care of the children and even work in the office for extra money. why cant husband can keep their promise while marrying their wife.