Confused.... To stay or not to stay....?

@cecelgay (563)
Philippines
July 29, 2008 9:25pm CST
Right now im confused... I have 2 young boys living with thier father but my relationship with thier father is not going anywhere. Before i caught him cheating me, for the whole time that we've been together he cheat me and now trust is already gone..
3 responses
waturmon
@waturmon (32)
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30 Jul 08
If the trust is gone then the trust is GONE. Trust is a very hard thing for me to forgive/forget. I've found thru life, once you can't trust anymore then it will NEVER happen again. The little things will add up and add up until it explodes. I hope this Helps.
cecelgay
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
I know, when trust is gone it' really hard to put it back again or never at all but there are inoscent kids involve in here... I have two kids and that makes me truobled. Do they need to suffer?
sunkissed
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
30 Jul 08
cecel,Well if your relationship with thier father is not going anywhere and he has been cheating on you, I think you should leave him now. Why wait til you are older, life is so short, you really do deserve happiness. No need to stay with a person you can not trust, with out trust you have nothing. You deserve better.Close this door, another one will open to you. Find a man that will love and respect you for the good woman that you are, your children deserve to have a normal loving family unit.
dawnqiqi
@dawnqiqi (12)
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30 Jul 08
i do also think so.
rachel08
@rachel08 (9)
• China
31 Jul 08
We.. It's a easy question. The problem is what you really want? If yo want have a "full family" Just stay....If you want find your true love, leave him without any hesitate ! Many good guys are waitting for you. Or, you can go to the wonder single parent dating club singleparentloving.com *** to have a try. I know it's hard for you to make decision rihgt. Think about it carefully. Good luck!