Does not having a boyfriend means someone's ugly?
By ieeko89
@ieeko89 (1054)
Malaysia
July 29, 2008 10:50pm CST
Okay, i was browsing around when i found this one question that has been asked by this one stranger. She asked; 'does not having a boyfriend means I'm ugly?' Ahhh, i really don't think that not having a boyfriend/girlfriend means someone is ugly. It just they don't found the right person yet like we(everyone who's in a serious relationship)do. What do you think of this question? Tell me your opinion:) Thanks.
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35 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
30 Jul 08
Hi dear
if u ask me that i dont agree to that
i would say that Most Beautiful and handsome people dont have b/f or g/f as their choice get high
Joke aside i must say that it depend on culture, society and relegion as well. also attitude and apptitude of person add into it
it has nothing to do with ugluness or beauty of person
Take care
@Katsushiro (5)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Of course it doesn't, Ieeko-dono. It simply means that she is selective about who she gives her heart to and refuses to compromise her integrity by pursuing someone else just to have a boyfriend. I once knew a young man who had a whole stable of ladies at his disposal. He was the most unpleasant and lecherous freak I have ever laid eyes on. It's really much better to be single than in his shoes, I think.
@Katsushiro (5)
• United States
31 Jul 08
Ah! I didn't necessarily mean that I'd prefer being single over anything else... far from it, in fact. But I would much rather be single than be a gentleman of questionable taste and dubious morality!
@lyy284891086 (623)
• China
30 Jul 08
Here i do not think so ,if you have a boyfriend means you are a beatifull girl. and if you get a girl friend means you are a haneson boy.But in a word if there are someone like you of love you maybe you are attractile,and if someone doesn't get a boy or girl friend it maybe is because he or she is a personer
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
30 Jul 08
Well I do feel sad that I am about to be 20 now and I never had a boyfriend till today.
I don't feel that I am ugly.. rather there are many guys who wants to go out with me but its just me who is finding it hard to find the right guy.
I don't even have too many guide lines for a perfect boyfriend. I just want a simple guy but this is my destiny that I always meet complex people!!
I feel that I am just too cautious in this field. Like in the movie "Bride and Prejudice".
well may be I am not sure about that.
Friends tell me to try to give people my trust for once.
I just find it very hard.
But like always to get something you always have to give something.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 08
Oww, really? Well darling, guys wants you because you have a nice heart. And it doesn't matter if you're ugly or pretty. As long as you have a pure heart, everything 's gonna be okay. Give your heart a chance to love and to be loved. Well, 1st trial is not always give you a good feedback. Just don't give up and you'll meet someone;)
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
31 Jul 08
well ya .. that's what I am doing, trying to give my heart one chance more..
I have to learn to trust people .. And gain some trust for my self too.
@earncommunity (1183)
• India
31 Jul 08
Yep! that is very true! Not all beautiful women have boy friends. And having a boy friend depends on many things other than just beauty. They should be able to relate emotionally if the relationship has to stay, so not having a boy friend just means that the girl has not yet met the person of her choice!
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Hi! actually i did asked that question to myself before..when i was in high school i have classmates and friends with boyfriends and suitors..but me?nothing! so i started asking that "am i ugly?"but every time i face a mirror i see myself beautiful and i said to myself that they are blind!haha..jokz..lol..until i finished high school..i met someone..who became my first bf (but not serious..just a fling i think..) that's when i think that it's not true!it's that it's not the right time for me..i didn't meet the right guy by that time..and i'm so friendly maybe they (guyz) misunderstood me..maybe they thought that one of my friend is my bf..or i don't know hehe..but now i think and i believe that i am more beautiful because i found the right one..my husband..
To all the girls out there..don't ever think that you're ugly! We're all beautiful!
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Of course not! A woman can be beautiful with or without a boyfriend. I think that it's up to the person to look beautiful everyday by being positive and happy. Worrying too much about not having a boyfriend could really make a woman ugly. So stay happy and positive always.
@Anuarz2000 (10)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 08
I don't think so that someone don't have boyfriend/girlfriend is ugly. As human we should thanks what come to us. Everyone should have boyfriend/girlfriend but not exactly special one. It means special friends is more meaningful to somebody than boyfriends or girlfriends.
@turtlegirl (148)
• United States
31 Jul 08
Yeah, they probably have not found the right person yet. Love seems to come eventually to everyone anyways, ugly or not.
@rachel08 (9)
• China
31 Jul 08
Well....I have heard the small topic on the single parent datig club singleparentloving.com . I still remeber someone's thought: Before making the conclusion, we have to know what is beauty! Different people have different definitions. So "ugly" is not for people! This is one of reasons why people ask for equal rights!
@Cocoa33 (921)
• United States
31 Jul 08
i think that having a boyfriend doesn't define who u are as a person. it also doesnt define what makes a person ugly or beautiful. what makes a person ugly are his or her behavior and the way they act on a daily. if one doesn't have a boyfriend all it means is that they haven't found the one they are compatible with yet.
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I agree with you in saying that, it just means that they haven't found the right one yet. If they're like I was, I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was in my late 20's, its because I was too picky..lol. I didn't think it was because I was ugly, its because I was picky about who I hung around with, and I was very shy, so guys made me nervous..lol.
@princejayevents (1245)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
"There is NO ugly person, only a person who DON'T KNOW how to make good of himself." SINGLEBLESSEDNESS is one thing you can enjoy. Some people are just meant to be like that. It's your choice, if you are happy with being single, then stay single.
It's better to stay single but happy and free, than to be with someone else yet you are living life in misery.
I'm luck that i'm happy being with my very special love.
@dhevasena (144)
•
31 Jul 08
Hey thats not true... you dont have to have a boyfriend or girlfriend to show how beautiful you are. I guess the most beautiful girls intimidate guys so they wont ask them out anyways.. Beauty only plays a small role in relationships , its more about the personalit that counts!
@LlamaCookie527 (29)
• United States
30 Jul 08
I don't think it means that someone is ugly at all. One of my best friends is gorgeous beyond belief but she doesn't have a boyfriend. She thinks she is meant to be alone forever even though I keep telling her that thats not true. I don't think I am all that pretty but I found the love of my life. I don't think anyone is meant to be alone. They just have to be patient. Love hits you when you least expect it. You can't try and find it. It will find you.