bars or cofee shop?

On my younger days (hehehe) I usually go to disco and bars. But now,m it seems that I prefer having dinner, chitchat then have coffee with my friends. Though we still hang out in bars but not that much anymore. Maybe it depends on who I am with. usually my colleagues prefer bar, so we usually go to one. But if I am with my college or High school friends, we just eat and have coffee.