How did you woo her to be your girlfriend?
By majestic12
@majestic12 (270)
United States
3 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I met this girl on the Internet. "Match.com"
I made sure that the only woman I was interested in were local and would try to communicate with them. Makes dating so much easier. Match has a feature that when you have sent an email to someone they bring up three more profiles that are similar to the one you just wrote to. After about the third time I saw her profile I finally broke down and sent the email. She is a very pretty lady and very specific in what she wanted which intimidated me at first.
I finally thought what do I have to loose. She agreed to meet me. I was like a cat on a hot tin roof but we met but we hit it off well.
We continued to communicate via email and after awhile I ask her out again only this would be a date. She said yes.
So we went to a movie and then dinner. Now my intimidation was really bothering me and while we got along well I did not do some of the things I should have. Like opening the car door for her until almost to late. That blew my mind so much that when I dropped her off at home I didn't get out to open the door or even walk her to her house.
As I drove away I had this sick feeling that I really screwed up.
I did. I got an email that described all those things and that she didn't think there would be any future for us. Well for some reason, even though I had dated 9 women this same way before her this hit me hard. To be rejected by her hurt.
Something inside me could not let that go so I sent an email telling her why I failed to do those things and that indeed I knew better and that it would not happen again. I almost made the whole email negative as that is how I was feeling but something told me to not do that. So I ended the email with one sentence that made all the difference. "So this is my explanation so now all you have to do is hit reply and say yes XXXX I would like to go out with you again".
She later told me that made all this difference in the world and she sent me back and email with those exact words.
That was only three months ago and we are now married.
No matter what your circumstance ,confidence, makes all the difference.
If you project the feeling that she would be a fool to pass you up it will help almost any situation you find yourself in. Best of luck to you.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
I met my girlfriend in the chatroom. We started as friends. That time we were both far away with each other. Each passing days I felt a strange feeling and started missing her and texted her everyday. First she doesn't believe me, and telling me your joking you don't know me who am I. I courted her texting her every hour it took the courtship for a month and she answered me yes. And now I'm with her being with her, the more I love her, and don't want the passing days not being with her side. It's like I wanna spend my life with her. Have a nice day!
@dodgeman270 (123)
• United States
31 Jul 08
i meet her at a party and thougt she was the prettyest thing ive ever seen. i knew one of her freinds soo i got her adress and brought her flowers and asked her out.he said yes and then years went buy and now we are married with to kids.