stop the insanity

Thanks. That works for normal kids but daughters are sooo hard headed that when I try that, they just do without. They don't care! I took half of their toys out of their bedroom last October because they wouldn't clean their room (all their favorite toys mind you) and they still haven't earned them back! My parents told me that they hoped i had one just like me, but dang! Two of them?!!? And I know my dad means well because when my brother and I were little and he spanked us for being bad, every time-never failed, the very next day he would come home with a car full of toys because he felt bad. Its just in his nature to make kids happy...luckily he has really been working on letting the girls know that mommy is the boss and if I punish them he then he won't save them anymore. Babysteps I guess.....I wuv my daddy