My only Best friend, and i cant do anything!

Malaysia
July 30, 2008 6:52pm CST
I only have one BEst Friend, cause i only want her to be mine only Best Friend. But, she always quite upset of her life... SHe upset cause she couldnt do well in study , cant communicate well with family and friends... She eventually can borrow all her money to somebody that she know she cant get back the money. SHe even has problem with her relationship with her lover. She know the guy not truly love her. He go out with other girl, he love other girl, he dont k her much, he need her just because she can do whatever thing he want her to do. My best friend.... she break with him and re-accept him and break-- re-accept, she said she love him, she cant live without him.. I hate that guy but i don even dare to curse him... cause she cant live wthout him.. she will die for him... then, nothing can i do ...
1 response
klaudine
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 08
I know your feeling. I happened to my friend too. She was just so sweet so she can't do anything when her boyfriend beat her up. At last she told me, but it was long after she broke up for good with that j3rk!! That guy 'borrow' her some money, but he never give the money back to her until today, and it's been a year. I tried to tell her that she has a right to ask them back since the amount is not so small. She resisted that the best for her is never to see him anymore. Nothing I can do. I can just respect her choice now and help her whenever she asked it
klaudine
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 08
It's not because she doesn't have a choice, she thought she doesn't have one, but you can tell her that she always has options. she chose not to choose, and it is her weakness. It is okay... sometimes some people should learn on their own way. She might not be able to listen to your advises, let her go. One day she will fall, be there to catch her :) don't leave her when she met the end of the relationship, never say, "I've told you..." just say that you'll be there :)