Do you have a best friend?
By mimico
@mimico (3617)
Philippines
July 30, 2008 8:26pm CST
I came so close to having a best friend when I was a little girl, but there were three of us in our little club so it was unavoidable that we'd eventually split up. Since then, I haven't had a best friend nor do I think I will. I just like doing things on my own a lot of times. I hang out and talk to my very close friends once in a while but not everyday. So who among you has a best friend and how long have you been together?
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6 responses
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
31 Jul 08
We have our lives now. We have our own families now. But my best friends, though we parted for a long time now, we still get a chance to communicate. We are connected in friendster, and we also chat sometimes.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
31 Jul 08
Hi mimico,
Yes, I had a best friend in school. She was with me from class VI till class X. Then we went to separate schools and I lost track of her. In college I again had a best friend but after college we went to separate professions and then marriage and then the kids…so now I do not have any female best friends but only one male best friend…guess who?
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
I have two bestfriends and we've been together for almost years now. It was just recently that we no longer have much time to spend with one another since we are all busy in our own lives. Though we still made contact or email once in a while
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
I have a bestfriend. We met way back in my high school days. Until now we have constant communication and we see each other often. I married my best friend's brother. But I have a BOF (Best Online Friend), we see to it that we chat every night. I met him at one of a social networking site were we are both members. We've become close because of his music playlist on his page. We've known each other for months now. The great thing is, he joined me here at mylot, he's my most active referral now.
Keep posting. HUGZ!
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Hi! We're kinda the same actually. I do things on my own too and I dont have a real best friend. I have close friends and lots of friends but there's no particular one that I became friends with. I think I did had 2 best friends but they were short lived. The first was a girl and we were kindergarten classmates. I would go to their house and play and we would always have our snacks together. Then they moved to a new house that's far away from where we lived. I still know her and we're actually classmates in Elementary through high school. We keep in touch but we just didnt grow being best friends. The second was a boy and we would play everyday. They own the apartment building we were renting in and either I would go up to their apartment or he will go down to ours to just play. Then they left. The apartment is still there and I think they still own it but I havent seen him in about 12 years. Dont know what he looks like and no contact whatsoever.
So Ive always been a loner but I can adapt to any situation. Nice to still have good friends even when I prefer to be alone. Have a nice day.
@sunshineprincess (20)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
hi mimico,
dont loose hope, you can still have bestfriend. just be open and be friendly.
i have 4 best friends, who had been with me for the longest time. i have a best friend since i was in college which is a guy. and 2 best friends in our church. i also treat my boyfriend as my best friend cause he knows everything about me and i can discuss to him any problems i have.