where are you???

To be honest, I'd been away for a few weeks and thought everyone would have forgotten me. I've had a couple wonder where I'd been and if everything was allright. Sometimes ppl just need a break. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~

Once in a while it is a good idea to check the profiles of your friends you don't hear from any more to see whether they are still active. You can see when was the last time they logged in and also what activity is there and when it was done. If someone has not logged in for 5 or six months it is a good bet that they are no longer active in mylot at all. Sometimes, you are right they could be on vacation or just busy for the summer months so you wouldn't want to delete them.

I know i do not hear from all of mine either..I hear from just a few of them..I doubt that they deleted you,they are probably just not active right now...I do not start a lot of discussions but i always answer friends everyday...One of these days they will pop,up again...I think a lot of my friends take time off sometimes...

Its not very often that I do this, but I have deleted friends without notification. If there is a long period that I don't find any of their discussions interesting enough to me to post to, I cut the loss and delete the friend. Its nothing against them, I just go by a feeling that we have separate interests here in this site, and its not beneficial to either one of us to keep a friendship. I guess I don't let people know that I am deleting them because I don't want any hard feelings to arise.

Hmmmmm i have about 75 friends and out of them 10-15 are active And i wonder who are those Lucky 5, u r missing that Bad Anyway i do trasure my friends as i am here for friends not for payment Take care

hmm, one of my friend i think is not that active here in mylot.. anyway, i think she's in a good condition, maybe she's just busy.. i haven't got that big number of friends like yours though..

I'm here just haven't been on line much

I am still here sweetie but never get much change to respond.

I think people seldom will delete friends from their lists. It's no need to do so. Perhaps your friends have some reasons and therefore they are unable to be as active as before. Perhaps you can try to PM them? I love China

You know, i dont really have friends here at mylot. i mean i do have friends for like to answer to their discussions or what not but my provate message thingy never gets used LMAO. so i dont really have the problem of loosing a friend without any contact because well. i dont really have any. me i have done 1 clean up in my firneds list since ive been here. i did delete like 25-30 people off my list then without any notification to them. it was people who i see were not active. or barley active at all. also one who were at like less then 100 posts. because then i herd there was a few people who was befriending people and purposly rating them bad. and when someone comes here to do that obviously there ganna be to busey to actually do much work here on mylot wich would leave them with a low number(how many posts youve done). But that actually has been months and months ago..... the firends i have now stay. i do answer there discussions alot and i do like the ones i have so i dont plan on doing any clean ups anytime soon. I am sorry to hear that you lost these firneds:( I hope they come. and that you get to talk to them again. i myslef hate to loose friends period so i know how it is...

I feel the same way as you but I guess because it is summer more people are outside enjoying the weather instead of inside posting in mylot. I have been very active for the months of June and July but now that August is here and the weather has been nicer I have been out more and have not been very active at all. If the weather continues I will not be here much for the month of August because I am an outdoor person and love the warm weather. I have about 90 friends and I bet I have only been seeing about 10 of them consistantly in the months of June and July and since I haven't been active in August I don't know how many of them are still around this month. I will be more active in September but until then I will continue to do what I can and I do post to some of your discussions and will continue to do so. See you later my friend.

that was too sad to know...

Hi Che I've been off the computer most of the day, have you missed me? Maybe those friends just don't do mylot anymore. It would have been nice for them to let you know.Have you seen them in other places here? Can you find out if they are still active? Well, I'm not going anywhere and if I do I'll let you know. Hugs leenie

Hi,Checapricorn! I think they are very busy,maybe they are traveling.Anyway,I can't delete my friends without any notifications.I enjoy mylot although it spent much time,but it isn't wasting,because I can known many foreign friends! All the best wishes to you!

Hi che, you are really great to have 30 or so active friends here who are always active in your posts. I’m sad that only a few of my friends participate in my discussions. might be I’m not a good and productive discussions creator anyway. Hi my dear, I don’t think our active friends would delete us without any reason. I believe one inactive here for some time might be busy with their personal business or having vacation. Or their time spent here daily is limited and couldn’t reply all the discussions of friends in one shot, for they have received so many notifications daily. I hope they would back soon and as active again as before. Yeah, I am sad that I did lose some active and nice friends here without any information. I found they are inactive for more than months after going through their profiles. posting and have a nice day.

There are a few that I have not seen recently only because I have been MIA myself so not sure if they are still here or not. I've noticed they haven't been posting either so not sure what is happening there.

Well, there is a way to know if they deleted you or not... just visit their profile... if you see the words SEND MESSAGE below their avatar... then you were not deleted... but if it says ADD AS A FRIEND... then you were deleted... and i hope that is not the case... A lot of members here come and go... but a lot would always come back... so let us just hope they are only taking a break from mylot... and they will eventually return...

hi checapricorn, even i was not active from last 15 days, it might be because i was not ready to reply any discussion and running out of topic to strat new discussion. One more reason, i have 6 ref here in mylot but not active and want to earn fast.. kind of demotivated. i will come back thanks and enjoy mylotting

I delete some who haven't been active for months. I have more than afew I try to keep up with.I still have friends I keep up with daily.

hi checapricorn I have a lot of friends too but only so many thatreally respond to my discussions but I hate to delete. I am a very soft touch and hardly ever turn ever turn down anyone asking for my friendship. I hate to turn down anyone but have just a few times. mostof my friends do seem to respond to my posts so have some special friends too.