Whom do you prefer?

Younger or older does not matter to me. What matters to me is the maturity of my partner's brain. Afterall, you can have someone who is older than you in age be thinking like a small little boy, and alternatively there are also people who are younger than you who have a thinking of an old man. So, it all depends on the maturity of the guys that I am with.. Lol, again the same thing applies to age gap. It does not matter to me as long as the guy is mature in his thinking. I can't stand a guy who whines for my attention, controls my freedom, is super possesive and of course who wants to stick with me 24/7. What I look for in a guy is his sense of humour, sense of responsibility, knows how to take good care of me, can hold up his end of the conversation and of course can take good care of himself. That is just about how I look for in a guy. Of course, I have heard before from some older folks that the ideal age gap between boys and girls would be 4 years as guys mature 4 years after the ladies. Not sure how true that is as I have seen for myself that some younger guys are mature beyond their age and some older guys are plain immature!

Either your partner should be equal in age with or she/he must be younger than you.If you didn't follow these conditions then you are the greatest fool of this world.

Hi there mobilecubie, For me i like the man is older than me, been with a man that younger than me and i don't like it, feels like i am a baby sister. So childish. Happy posying always, from dian , Bali island.

iv'e always been attracted to women younger than me because, with my low self confidence and insecure feelings about myself, i felt i could make a younger one fall in love with me. now i think if i would have chose an older more experienced woman, she would understand me and try to help me lose those insecurity issues and there wouldn't be so many issues about this in my relationship. older women like secure, strong, men too, but they know how to help release those fears and feelings.

my bf is 5 years older than me, i appreciate that his older coz he always makes adjustment. i dont need to argue coz he puts things in order. he always see to it that when i speak he listens and when he speaks though i seldom listens but he makes sure that i got the point. there is always an advance when the guy is older.

At first ,I don't choose a man who is younger than me ,then I think the maximum age gap is ten years old .I need a man who love me ,care me, and is willing to do anything for me .Like a father ,he can help me to solve all the troubles in the life.At the same time , he must have a wide knowledge of every aspect,when i have a question ,he can answer it timely.

I think love should not be soo stricted by age and that there should not be too many requirements. Of coz everyone has a list on what they want for their lover but I always believe when the right one comes along, all those requirements go down the drain.