Can I really understand him/her?

China
July 31, 2008 2:05am CST
My boyfriend and I are always frank to each other,I think no one can understand him better than me all long.While these days I begin to realize that maybe I am wrong.At the beginning we have a qurrle ,I found that we are so diffent in ways of understanding this world.I feel disappointed.Maybe as the book says,men and women can never understand each other,or I just made a wrong choice from the beginning.Can we approach each other in ways of thinking through our hardworking?That is really a difficulty to me.
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subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
31 Jul 08
why think that way? may be there ar some small issues that is causing the rift between you. try to find out the differences. always talk frankly to sort them out. at least you can say you tried the best.
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reckon21
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Every person is unique. There's something inside of us that distinguished us from the rest. Therefore it's hard to understand everybody. It doesn't mean that you will totally understand him because he is your boyfriend. He is unique and so are you.
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makareem2k2
@makareem2k2 (14)
• Nigeria
31 Jul 08
hi, you are meant to be differrent,that is the miracle in it.You should serve as complements to each other. I almost had the same problem as yours, but for the grace and mercy of GOD .You have not made the wrong choice, you are veiwing the right choice, the wrong way , all it take is just a little compromise then you will see that you complement each other . Remember it is compromise only if it is from both side so callyour love talk things through try it you will see it works. Don't forget prayers is the key