Are u in love with yourself???
By nakshathra
@nakshathra (113)
India
July 31, 2008 7:26am CST
I attended my friend's marriage wearing a new saree..Its color is maroon which is my favorite color and i was happy to wear the pearl ornaments with them to have a look which i would always love to have ...
When i got the photos of the function,what i first searched for is my photo..Similarly my hubby was interested in having a look at his photo first and so do my friend..
Thats the reason behind this discussion which made me think for a while...
If someone asks you "whom do u love most??",i used to answer my hubby,my parents,my sister etc etc..
But am i not lying...Whom do i love most in this world...
Why second thoughts..The answer is simple "MYSELF....;-)"....
We always see the world as we are and not as the world really is.
I wish to know what do you think..Do you feel the same???
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4 responses
@aidenw (632)
• United States
31 Jul 08
yes i agree. i love myself most. when i was little i used to have low self esteem,that's because i didn't love myself enough.i didn't think i was good enough compared to others. later in college i read books and listened to seminars on personal development and i learned to love myself more and more so that i have high self esteem. some people may think having high self esteem is like being arrogant,but it's not the same. being arrogant you look down on others, but if you have high self esteem you feel good about yourself and yet you also repect and love others as well which is wonderful.
@jiangxj (45)
• China
31 Jul 08
yes,you are right.we must love ourself first,then we can love others better.but the fact is how to do to love ourself?i think, many persons don't really know that,wether young or old.in particular,those lovebirds,they love each other,sometimes,place the other's feeling frist.so,we feel sad and even do some too crazy things.so,i think love myself is a easy phrase,but it is not easy thing to do.
@nakshathra (113)
• India
31 Jul 08
very well said...WE must learn to love ourself so that we can love others even more better....:-)
@xiaocaierdai (12)
• China
31 Jul 08
first what I want to say is that I don't really understand myself ,becuse sometims hate myself why I can't do this like other students ,in the other way I will love myself when because I can do better than others ,I know it is not good,maybe I should learn to how to love and maybe I will be more confident so that I can do more things.
@nakshathra (113)
• India
31 Jul 08
thats like a good boy:-)
If u didn't love urself,then who will do???