what will you do if your girl friend loves your best friend???
By carvind
@carvind (24)
United States
July 31, 2008 9:35am CST
Whats ur reaction if your girl friend says that she loves ur best friend??
10 responses
@hazelsweetme (199)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
It Hurts. But what can I do. Maybe I will stay away for a while. Let him think. And if that's what he really feels....accept. Its not easy to do that. Sure it will take a lot of time to heal a broken heart.
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
31 Jul 08
What is there can be done. If she likes my best friend then she should hook up with him. It's best for all of us. It is fun with her that matters.lol
@jaghead1179 (199)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
ill be shock at first but of course ill be happy with my friend and my bestfriend that they'll end up together...
@suzu12345 (470)
• India
31 Jul 08
hmmmmm,,,, wat a query,,if it is so then i would flirt with my best friends girlfriend,,rather than anything, this would surely please me,,lolzz
@oana1a (12)
• Romania
31 Jul 08
what can i say..nobody can or should stay in the way of love. it's sad but it's true. if a person has feelings for another, whether he is your best friend or a complete stranger, it's clear that there is nothing you can do about it. just resign yourself and start searching for the person that is truly meant for you. good luck! kisses.
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Well, it just means that the girlfriend doesn’t love her boyfriend or she will not fall inlove with his boyfriend’s bestfriend if she does love her boyfriend right? And there is nothing that the boyfriend can do about it if the girl confesses, let her go, let her be happy wherever she can be happy, than ask her to stay in a one sided relationship. He wont be happy with her if she loves someone else. And to the girlfriend, she must really love the bestfriend to be very honest about the feelings.. this is a very sad situation. And I just pray this will never happen to me..hahahaha
@Gargoyle0134 (1257)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I would tell her right in front of him, I love my partner, he loves me back..I trust him NOT to mess around. Then I would tell him in private..I am counting on you to do the right thing and believe in you. I am proud of you and I trust you!
In the end..most men feel then that they are obligated to please you and appreciated the trust and support. It makes it harder for them to justify cheating. In the end..it is not a matter of her loving him or not. It IS a matter of trust between you and your partner, isn't it?
(If he does cheat..kick his behind to the curb and MOVE ON! But I doubt of yuo do the above..he would not "go there" and do that to you. A realtionship with no trust..is NO real relationship!)
@Dragonofgold (509)
• Canada
31 Jul 08
bitter. You cannot control the way others think or feel though. Unfortunately, I think you need to let her go. If it was a mistake on her part, it will become obvious to her soon. If you truly care about her and yourself, you will let her go and do what she thinks is best. Go find yourself a woman who deserves you, cuz methinks maybe this one doesn't.