If I like a boy,what can I do? Can you give me some advices?
By liuyue0805
@liuyue0805 (26)
China
July 31, 2008 9:51am CST
I am a girl, till now I am twenty,I have not be loved with any boy, because I have not met the boy who can bring me the feeling of heartbeat, I don't like to be in love many times, I just want to find the fittest one, now I think maybe a boy is just the one.
He is good boy, his every aspect suits my requirements, but the problem is that I don't know whether he likes me too, I don't know how to know it, I have no courage to ask him directly, I just wait him everyday in MSN, I know he will be there every night, but I don't know what I should talk with him, I am very puzzled, what can I do?
Have you ever experienced this feeling? Can you give me some advices?
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8 responses
@charmeyn (82)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
If you're brave enough, go tell him what you feel. There's nothing wrong with it. :) Or just give him signs that you're into him. :D
But in my case, I didn't tell the guy that I liked him. I was too shy because he was my friend, I was afraid that if I'd tell him what I feel he'll just take it as a joke and laugh at me. But I was wrong, when my debut party came, my other friends told him that I like him, then he told me he feel the same way, he also too shy to tell me. :)
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Just take your time. Just let it flow. Just be yourself. If it's really for you it will. Sometimes it's takes time. What's important is communication. I been their that is why. I met my girl in chatting we been friends for a while and started feeling more than friends. I started texting her really did a lot to show her really what I feel. I even courted her for a month and she answered me.We were so far away with each other. And now Iam near her really decided to be with her to be near her everyday. Now it's been almost 2 years and it's us, I'm almost there now to propose marriage. We usually remember how everything started. With Hi and hello. How are you? How is your day? Any problem you wanna tell me about maybe I can help you. Every passing day we communicate we laugh and knowing each other. The ups and down of life. Just starts with hello. Always hello. Have a nice day!
@suzu12345 (470)
• India
1 Aug 08
hey,liuyue..if u think that boy makes ur heart beat,,then i tell u wat..JUST GO AHEAD,,,cause its note every day u find a person who has the tendency to make u fall in love
@dodgeman270 (123)
• United States
31 Jul 08
just ask him trust me im a guy and i know that we dont like to wait and if this is truly what you are feeling just let him know and get to know each other and you guys should be fine
@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
31 Jul 08
Ask him out on something simple... "Hey! I have off tomorrow & I wanna do something... You wanna go out for a cup of coffee or something?" Find out what type of food or movie he likes... "I know this great italian restaurant... You wanna go?" Little things like these will get you started... Find something in common & make an opportunity to talk to him, don't wait for it to come around by a chance... There's an old saying that I live by... "Good things may come to those who wait but only what's left over by those who go out & get it...!!!" If you never try it, you'll never know & worst yet, there's a chance you'll never get it...
@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
31 Jul 08
You shall say your mind to him.Don't afraid anything,you shall say out"i love you" bravely,if you do that you have 15% succeed,if you don't say you will get none of chance.You can make a test to him,when you send a message to him on msn,whether he send back a message to you quickly?if yes it means he has some feeling to you,and boys usually don't refuse love from a girl,bravely say out your mind
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