Do you have a child in their "terrible twos", or have you before?

My daughter is 3 now....even i had a very difficult time when she was younger...i dont think we can and should control them at this age, but can defntly discipline them, they would do it in exchange for a candy or toy...u can do it intially to get them under control, once they are 3, they themselves get to know what to do and try to experiment more on themselves, they tend to be independent without wanting our help, but once they get to know whats exactly happening arnd them after 3, you can change them easily, dont worry....now let them enjoy