What would you do if u find out that you & your brother love the same gilr

Hey..that's your brother. do the honorable thing and bow on out. If it does not work out..then you would have your cahnce to try later, right? Brother/blood first! Family counts most! Of course..you could also talk to him and both agree that you are family and neither of you will date her. That keeps the family tight AND he'll know it means alot to you to talk to him and be a good brother!

wow that would be a hard one. you would have to let her choose who ever she likes you cant put any control over that.

Hello darksorrow, This is a very difficult situation. If I could, I will try not to be entangled in this kind of relationship. But sometimes, love can make us think differently. If I know very well that the person loves me more, I will talk face to face with my sister. I do love her more than a stranger but when love is the reason, I have to think deeply and make the right decision. There is no point for me to walk away if that person doesn't love my sister like he does to me. But if it is the opposite way, I will surrender. There is no point to pursue something that is clearly not belong to me.

If it were my sister and I with the same guy, we would both leave him alone. There are a lot of men in the world. If something is meant to happen, he will contact one of us later, etc. Then that would be fine.