Is adoption better than surrogacy?

I say it is better to go for adoption. There are already enough people in this world. She should give an orphan child a home. She can have a child and not increase the world population at the same time.

This is a really difficult choice. It's deeply involved with emotions and faith and self-esteem. Both choices work for some and not for others. Nobody can really tell a woman how to deal with this. She and her husband will have to talk it over and over and over. Maybe making a list of pros and cons would help. When all is said and done, the family is all that matters, and whichever choice brings them a child will result in a child who is loved and wanted and parents who are loving and loved. I adopted, because cancer made childbearing impossible for me. If, all those year ago, I had the option of surrogacy, I don't know what I would have done. I guess it has a lot to do with whether or not the couple knows a young woman who needs a home for a baby.