My best friend died

July 31, 2008 7:52pm CST
My best friend left our country (Philippines) to work aborad(Kwait). She is quite pretty making her have a stalker, she was really irritated having one, so she confronted the stalker shout at his face to stop following and calling her. One day after going to church she went to the hotel where she work as a receptionist and be informed that her co-workers were then dismissed to hang out. She followed her co-workers, and noticed that someone (not her stalker) has been following her. she got scared and runs fast. just as she was crossing the road (with the right signal) a rushing car bumped her(I think it was her stalker who bumped her and the entire thing is planned)her right hand was detached from her body and her ankles twisted in front. You know guys how hard is it losing your bestfriend for this reason?
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21 responses
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Terrible, do you have idea why this stalker do that to your friend??? Why don't you guys tell it to the police so they will help you.
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@msedge (4011)
• United States
1 Aug 08
That is so sad!I am very sorry this happened to your best friend.I would feel so hurt if this will happen to my bestfriend too.Though she doesn't make an effort to talk to me more often now but still deep in my heart i still love her.My condolences for you and your bestfriend's family.I know its hard for them to accept what had happened but everything happens for a reason.May she rest in peace!
• India
1 Aug 08
This sounds straight from the movies…I am so sorry somebody had to face this in real life. Her family must be shattered like you. I have not lost anybody close to me like this and I hope I do not have to go thru this trauma.
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@casper27 (134)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Im sorry for what happened to your bestfriend. Im sure she'll be in good hands with God now. Im also sure she'll be looking at you from where she is now. That is what hard to all those filipino who went out of the country not all goes home with success. It just happen that your bestfriend is one of them. Let's just pray for her soul.
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• Malaysia
1 Aug 08
I am sorry for your friend! That`s the life... Kuwait is a nice country, but sometimes the ppl from there no respect the Philippines especial women or even others women from Europe,Asia.
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• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Am sorry for the lost of your best friend. Surely you miss her. Well just pray and I'll pray for you, too. Hope you overcome he situation and bear in mind that she's at peace now.
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@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
1 Aug 08
This is a very sad story and I am sorry that you lost your friend this way, as it is really tragic!
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
That is such a tragic thing to happen. I hope the guy will have to pay for that incident. I am just so sorry what happened to your friend.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
2 Aug 08
Oh my goodness. I just feel so sorry for you, as her best friend and for her family. You all must be grieving so much. This is such a terrible thing to happen. Being followed by a someone when they already know a stalker makes a person feel nervous and they might run across a road without care. It is awful that she got hit by a car. So you think that it was her stalker that ran her over. Did the police catch the driver?
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
2 Aug 08
It is so sad to know. I have a bestfriend also. I could not imagine losing her. Especially as tragic as you lost your own. Hope you will be okay. My condolences.
• United States
1 Aug 08
Wow I'm so sorry and i hope everything with you gets better..So sorry and i cant even image loosing my bestfriend..People are so mean these days and they don't care..Now a days you can do crimes and get away with it..Life is too hard to be taking someone elses life away , little do that person know , they taken away someones mother,sister,daughter ,grandchild ,cousin and friend..hmmm god has a plain for you keep the faith...
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@vimaal (3361)
• India
1 Aug 08
hi friend, oh my god. i really so sorry for your loss. i pray god for your friend and his/her family. take care have a nice day.
@suzu12345 (470)
• India
1 Aug 08
ohh i ms o sorry for u my dear friend,,may ur friend soul rest in heaven///may god bless him
• China
1 Aug 08
I am really sorry to hear that. You know, she is a kind lady, so that she would have gone up to heaven. She would feel fortune there.
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@anushri (961)
• India
1 Aug 08
its very sad to hear about your friend yes ur right its very hurting when we lose somone close to our heart specially friends. we share everything wid them and then one day suddenly we lose them it hurts a lot i also gone through all these things but be strong
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
1 Aug 08
I'm so sorry that you lost your best friend, especially in such a horrible way!! I hope that they can find this person(s) who did this and they will be brought to pay for what they have done. God Bless you and the family of your friend during this time. SheliaLee
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Aug 08
hi Joanna I am so sorry what an a wful way to lose your best friend. Probably was the stalker as they sometimes turn killer.thats just dreadful and will be a few days before' you can come to terms with that. I am really really sorry for you. good luck. take it one day at a time.
@jersey86 (1348)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
oh, hi joanna feel so sorry for your best friend please extend my condolences to her.. That was so sad for a fellow Pilipino work abroad and that's gonna happen.. losing a best friend is really a hurtful.. but that's life joan and don't worry for your best friend she is now safe in heaven
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
I never thought it could happen in real life.Thought that it's just happen in movies.I feel sorry for you and your friend.Some people do those things,and the one that killed your friend would be punished.God is guiding us,let's just pray that your friends is with god now.I know it's hard for you to think good right now.This serves as a lesson to us.We should learn to deal with people according to how they think.In some way she had done wrong by shouting at the man's face which is embarrasing,but it happened.Just save your memory with your friend,I know you could go on with your life and could find a new friend.
• United States
1 Aug 08
that is so horrible for you to lose your dear friend like that. that is so evil and criminal. i'm sorry that you have to live with that memory. try to think of her better days and the things that she liked. the things that made her laugh. she would want to be remembered that way.