How would you make otherz happy???

Yes its extremely difficult. It sometimes happens to me and I try to hide my feelings and concentrate on what they are saying or on their problems. You can make others happy by giving first priority to them rather then yourself. Many self-centered people, have these kind of peopl(people that give 1st priority to them) because two self-centered people are not quite a match. Only with the help of these people that put others first can the world go round.We see them everywhere; going in 3rd world countries and help the poor and leaving their families behind.

I can never do that with my very best friend and my husband. rest with everybody I can pretend as if I am happy and rest everything is ok. and seeing that if they are happy i will feel happy. but its very difficult to do..but at some kind of situation everybody has to do that.

Well I have gone through many such situations but I have observed that at that time you have to block your mind from the thoughts which paralyse you and make you more sad, but there is one more fact that there are people in life who become sad when you are sad so for their sake it is essential to come out of the situation.Believe it is not impossible to come out of any situation if you decide to make others happy.

i tend to smile when i am sadand seeing me smile,when others smile,i become happy.