I loved him..but he never loved me back

Guys can really be jerks, but you cant let it get u down. I dont fully uderstand the situation though. Did u guys ever date?; are you friends?; or is this just a guy you have feelings for, but he's too dumb to notice you? No matter what the situation though, you need to at least try to get over him. Meet some new guys, go out and just have fun. maybe one day you'll forget that you were trying to forget him. Just remember, any guy too dumb to love you back isn't good enough for you.

I understand how you feel. But, at the same time, if its been 3 years of this, and you have let everything else in your life fall apart because of this, this could possibly be beyond loving this man. I feel that you have an obsession with him, and thats unhealthy. That could be why he doesn't want to be with you. Stand back. Just calm down, and find other things to occupy your time and your mind. Also, you may want to see a therapist or psychiatrist and check into getting on some antidepressants, or some other medication to help with your depression and emptiness. Good Luck!

Well it will take some time because you allowed the feelings to lived in your life for quite sometime. But now that you know, simply learn from this experience and move on. This are the things that should make you move from where you are. The lesson from this is that you were on the right track loving and risking your life on a person you were not sure of loving you back. But now you have realized its not worth it. So what you must know right now that there is someone more deserving than him that will love you. Bet your life in that and be open to things that might happen.

Hello! I think it's only you who can do it. Even we give you advice. It's still upon yourself. 3 years, that' s kind a long to suffer, it's a big sacrifice that I think you tried everything just to win him. Your to blinded with your feelings and emotions and that's to much to take. I think you even forgetten yourself girl and even loving yourself. In love I know you don't have to ask for a return. But think it this way go somewhere that you can be alone. Really far away from him. You need space to breath and cry alone. Were not perfect, were just human we do mistakes. The world is so beautiful and I think your that nice and deserve a better man who could love you and like you for what you are. I feel sorry for you, you tried but he did not even receprocate what you shown him. In time you will learn to be strong and face it all by yourself and just say goodbye. Then embracing the hurts the pains deep inside you. Reality bites! God be with you!

Wow ...love hurts and as you grow you learn that simply the hard way...I've been in love once and i still love him...its easy to let go but hard to get them back..how do you know if he loved you or not ??? you will not forget about him you'll just learn to live without him...find something that intrests you and do it..get your mind off of it..sleep some stress off...cry yourself a beach if you have to !! To get over him is not as easy as it seems...This means , forget how many times you've loved him , how many times he's hurt you , how many times you've been put down..EVVVVVVERYTHING !Im not an expert on love but i know how it is to abuse it !! falling in love is a good thing sadly it isnt for everyone...I hope i helped and feel free anytime to message me here on mylot with any question and i'll answer them happy myloting :)

I have also experienced the same thing.. And when I was already over him, I realized that the reason that I've hold on to him is the hope or the assumption that he will love me back.. The reason why I can't move on that time is he is still giving me false hopes.. The only thing that made me move on and forget about him is entertaining other people in my life.. I spent more time with my friends so as to forget about him, I tried to lose contact with him..

well that's too bad..imagine.?it's been 3 years but still you haven't moved on.?oh..seems that it was really hard for you dear,,.Just make yourself busy..Try not to think of him always..I know you can get over this.:)

it's really hard to get over someone you really love but doesn't love you back. but you have to learn to love yourself more because that's the 1st step to moving on. believe that you've still got your whole life ahead of you. pray for God to help you get over the pain and look forward to all the other guys that you will meet for the rest of your life. it is only when you learn to love yourself a little bit more that others will also love you. so move on girl! or you might miss the best things that life has to offer.

I;ve always done one thing in life, WANT IT? GET IT!