how do you feel if your husband cheated?

I dont know...I'd just leave. I have been married twice and both times to cheaters and liers. I need to feel loved in return. I stuck it out in both for quite a while. I am so much happier on my own even tho it meant raising my 4 childeren on my own. I have no regrets. Now I date but I will never put myself in that spot again. You are right...it isn't fair at all. You are working on the relationship and he is destroying all your efforts. I may be negative but I will tell you that all my trying to make things work got me was more kids to raise on my own. Everyone is different. some people are able to work thru these things. I hope that you are. It all depends on how serious he is at making it work also. Is he remorseful? Was it a one-time thing? It is so hard to say whether this is a workable situation without knowing more about the type of husband he is. It sounds like you work and do all the work at home as well. does he work?

Chearting per se by any partner is bad. I would expect my partner not to cheat me under any circumstances. If at all my partner cheats me, before taking my next step, I would confront my partner and would like to know the root cause of cheating. If there is any sound cause for cheating, it shows and it means that I failed on one area of the another to fulfill the aspiration of my partner.

I would feel hurt, angry, very empty inside. It would feel i wasnt good enough.. Guys just cant help themselves.. Im sorry this has happened to you.. :( He isnt worth it..