can you feel the love in him?

Firstly, by not feeling the heat if you mean the heat of physical intimacy, then 11years is a long time to cool off the heat. You have been doing it for so long and so often, that its but natural that you both don’t start panting at each other. Secondly, take a break separately. Let me go on office tour or you go off to your parents or friends or whatever. Do something so that you stay separate from him for some days and see if you miss him. Arguments are a part of any healthy relationship. We argue with our parents, our children, our friends, our colleagues and then patch up and move on. Don’t read anything in arguments, you still love each other no matter what.

Having arguments, and being friends again is a good thing. If you having have all these things in over life there will be no meaning to our life. Life is such a thing that we can find every thing in it like happiness, pain, love, etc., we should taste all the things in our life other it wont be a life. you said that you don't feel enough love in your married life, take your foot and doing something about for ur love life. have a nice day

I think these things are just a part of life and we have to move on because life is as such. Try being creative and when i read that you are having arguments everyday then i think yu need to put your foot down and say an end to it, but still there is always a room for discussion. Cheers be happy.