my unresolved problem since i was a child...
By muneyuki04
@muneyuki04 (343)
Philippines
August 3, 2008 8:19am CST
my unresolved problem is about,,
the relation of being a step father,,,
to his step son,,
that is my life,,,
i remembered that when i was a child
he always hurt me physically,,
nowadays he still hit me,,,
sometimes....
he is very strict,,,
and he don't want to see me outside playing
with my friends,,
hmm,.,.
and if something simple wrong happen,,
he automatically hit me,,,
now even though we live in a one house,,,
i dont talk to him,,,
but if he ask some question,,,
i replied,,,
and no more topic to discuss,,,
no bonding,,,
i'm too cold from him,,,
3 responses
@bangwin29 (147)
• Philippines
3 Aug 08
he's doing that simply because you're not his own son, he's trying to be a father to you by being strict but he doesn't know how to be one, my parents also hits me sometimes when i was still younger but it's ok because they are my parents and they gave me life and they have the right to be strict and discipline me at any cost because i'm a little stubborn, i think your stepfahter wouldn't do that if you were own his son, maybe he will do a different way of disciplinary actions with his own son. does your mother knows this, well i think the best thing to do is to discuss this with you mom than be quiet, maybe she can do something about it, it's ok to be cold with him after what he's doing to you, never argue or start a fight with him, you'll never win...believe me, when you're old enough stand for your rights. try to be happy with different things, there's big life waiting ahead of you. good luck.
@muneyuki04 (343)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
yeah,,.,,she know,,
i'm too quiet about that..
and i don't want to discuss it,,,
sometimes i'm naughty,,,
but the attitude that i don't like,,
is he always hit me,.,.,even a simple wrong happen,,
hayzz....
unbeliever kaxe tatay koh,,
ayw magsimba,,
hahahaha.,.,
i'd never provoke him in a fight...
yeah,, i'll never win to him,,,
there i one comes up in my mind..
someday he will become old..
and nothing that can help him,,
but only her siblings...
@PuriStThunDerwRath (40)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
i also have my unresolved problem ... when i was a kid my parents always argue about the third party but i dont know if that is true... they always quarrel every morning and i cant sleep well because they are very noisy... how can i solve that!?
