Can woman do the proposing?

Singapore
November 4, 2006 12:49pm CST
ladies out there! do you think woman can be the one to propose to their bf? what if the answer is 'no' from the guy? how would you take it? any success stories out there? would like to hear from you all
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• United States
5 Nov 06
sure why not. I told my boyfriend on Monday I was gonna get married on Friday. That was 7 years ago and he is now my husband. We were married on Friday, August 13, 1999. good luck
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• Singapore
5 Nov 06
great that it all went so well! It's alwuz nice to hear nice true stories like that. Thank you. My best wishes to you and your family
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• Philippines
14 Nov 06
I stil think men should do it.
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
5 Nov 06
I think that a woman can propose if she wants to. Nothing wrong with it at all. I kinda proposed to my fiance. I put the idea on the table and asked what he thought. We never did an offical thing though. We just decided to do it. LOL Our whole relationship has been that way though. Make a decision and follow through.
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• Singapore
5 Nov 06
That's great! Thanks for your reply. Wishing you an everlasting love with the lucky guy and happiness alwuz!
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• Philippines
14 Nov 06
Well beyond it's our norms here in the Philippines.
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@all_n_one (2003)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I had a friend his wife asked him to marry her. He got married and everything is great with them. It is 2006 woman can propose to although i would wanna do the proposing not my girlfriend.
• Singapore
5 Nov 06
:) thanks for your reply. maybe i should consider proposing to my bf? hehe. Anyway, dont forget to inform us, MyLot members when's the wedding day. Good Luck!
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• Philippines
14 Nov 06
Ok.
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@ZuperBoy (257)
• Philippines
23 Nov 06
mmmm? that wud be different to do
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• United States
5 Nov 06
I don't see anything wrong with it if you love someone why would if have to be the guy!
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• Singapore
5 Nov 06
thanx for your reply
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• Philippines
14 Nov 06
I don't agree.
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@wyykidd (1459)
• Singapore
12 Nov 06
Sure, why not? I was the one who told hubby that we should go apply for a HDB flat. For the non-Singaporeans, this is another way of saying 'Let's get married'!
• Singapore
12 Nov 06
really? that's great! you sounds great too! Thanks for the response
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@caraj444 (1075)
• Canada
13 Nov 06
I definetly feel that if a woman feels she is at a point in her relationship where she feels they are both ready to get married and it happens her partner hasnt asked then she should go ahead and take the bull by the horns and ask. I think previous generations of women were for the most part expected to sit back and receive only what was offered to them they were not supposed to go after what they wanted, they were not supposed to be aggresive about their needs and wants and i think we need to do that now, if we want something we have just as much right to go after it a man does. and if he says no then either the timings not right for him and this could lead to better understanding between the couple of excatly where the relationship is and where it is going, or mayby he just doesnt want to marry her in which case i still think its good because at least she will know and can move on and hopefully find the person that she was meant to be with.
• Singapore
13 Nov 06
very well said! i couldnt have said it better! Thanks for your reply !
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@annieroos (1845)
• United States
6 Nov 06
I don't see any reason why a woman can not ask a man to marry them.. I think its kinda cool..
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• Singapore
6 Nov 06
Thank you for responding
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@epizzahut (2078)
• China
6 Nov 06
why not,if you love him.
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• Singapore
6 Nov 06
Thanks for your respond. But i would hope that he propose to me though LOL, when i posed the question to him, he told me 'I will be waiting' ....
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• United States
14 Nov 06
I think a women can do or say anything she wants. I wouldn't ask someone to marry me,if I didn't know they loved me and would say yes though.
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• United States
14 Nov 06
My pleasure. Have a good evening.
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• Singapore
14 Nov 06
that's true, no point getting rejected. Thanks for your response
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• Indonesia
6 Nov 06
i dont know any women who propose. but i guess there's nothin wrong with that as long as she knows what she's doing anyway, it's kinda weird to me.. women should be proposed to,not the one who proposing.. hmm...
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• Singapore
6 Nov 06
LOL thanks for your responding
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• United States
12 Nov 06
this is my sister n her fiance - this is my sister n her fiance
well along time ago when our parents were young that was a no no but now days anyone can ask the question...if a guy says no he might be old fashion...i know my sister is the one that asked her bf and they are gettin married next year
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• Singapore
12 Nov 06
cool! Send my best wishes to them and thank you for responding
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@jennp204 (231)
• Canada
14 Nov 06
Well, Britney Spears did it, and look where she ended up? with a he-capris wife beater wearing money vacuum. Now they are getting divorced. I guess every situation is different. Now if a lesbian couple is together, which one is supposed to ask? they are both girls? Or perhaps 2 gay men together? Just a question to ponder to further the discussions :)
• Singapore
14 Nov 06
LOL cool! I have a feeling that you are saying that a woman should propose?
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• Canada
23 Nov 06
Um yea but if you havent noticed K-Fed is a narcissist and self focussed for his own benefit. Im going with that relationship is not a normal situation at all
• China
15 Nov 06
I think a woman can, but I would never do it. I know sometimes men can be slow about things, but I really want the man to propose to me. I just wouldn't feel right doing it. I don't even like asking guys out on dates. Hahaha...I must be a little old fashioned. I just find the idea of a man proposing more romantic. However, I have friends (who are girls) and have done the asking out and proposing and it has gone well for them. I guess it depends on your personality and your relationship.
• Singapore
15 Nov 06
Im like you, i will never make the first move! i dont know why...old fashioned i guess lol i prefer to be the one being chased after, i guess. Thanks for your response
@mahi99 (162)
• Ireland
29 Nov 06
pic - pic
ladies you have to learn to propose, come out in to the open and propose to the guy you like, or else how does the poor guy know that you like if and you have feeling toward him. man are very very poor at picking non verbal signals .
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• Singapore
30 Nov 06
LOL! you are so funny! hope all ladies take note of this! Thanks for your response!
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@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
15 Nov 06
Being a guy I would not like for my girl to propose to me. I would feel like a girl. I feel it is for a man to do the proposing. I'd feel special though and I wouldn't say no either but I'd feel like a girl.
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• Singapore
15 Nov 06
hehe...some men have the same feeling, i guess...i tried asking my bf that question and hope he gave an answer like yours, but all he said was 'i'm looking forward for that question..' i told him 'no way! then i will have to be the one who buy the diamond ring!' LOL Thanks for your response
@dave_lie (1474)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 06
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i'm a man and i think woman can do the proposing. i love agressive woman.
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• Singapore
14 Nov 06
great! Thanks for your response
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@honest007 (793)
• India
14 Nov 06
why not... if u get a negative ans just forget about that n search 4 other guy
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• Singapore
14 Nov 06
oh? what if it's just not the right time, but he loves you still? Thanks for the response
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• India
14 Nov 06
Yes, women can propose to a man
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• Singapore
14 Nov 06
Thanks
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@baysmummy (1637)
• Australia
14 Nov 06
I dont think there is anything wrong with it at all, alot of men before if they do the asking instead of the woman i spose it is just tradition but i dont see anything wrong at all with the woman asking if thats what she wants to do then i say go for it!
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• Singapore
14 Nov 06
Thanks for your response ;0)
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• India
14 Nov 06
how can one propose her bf.. if he is already a bf.... ohhhh i c.. he can be sum1 elses bf... lol!!! nd y cant a girl propose... wat i think...if u really luv sum1.. just go nd say him/her your feelings.. its not necessary.. that the person whome we love.. they shud also luv us... we force love..
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• Singapore
14 Nov 06
hmmm...you might be misintepreting the question. i'm asking whether can a woman ask her bf for marriage? Anyway, thanks for your response
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