First Love or Last Love?
By poona_m
@poona_m (336)
India
August 3, 2008 12:21pm CST
This question might sound crazy to some but can you tell me if you want to be your husbands first love or last love? I know most of you would say you would like to be their first and last love. But given a situation where you are either his first love or last love, which one would you prefer?
I think I would prefer to be his last love. because it would mean he is happy with me and has found what he was looking for. And the fact that he stuck with me means I was/am better than all he had before me. Anyways I have nothing against what my hubby did before he met me but after he is with me he has to be only mine.
What is your opinion?
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3 responses
@ky_sweetpea_4u (10)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Well, we are each other's last love. I know that I have loved before him and that he says that "he only thought he was in love before me"...but regardless, I know that what we have is not what I have ever had with anyone else. I'm glad we weren't each other's only loves...I think that there has to be different people in your life to teach you lessons and things about yourself to help you to become who you are when you reach your 30's or so. I'm glad that we found each other later on and that we are one anothers last love...it was worth the wait.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 08
when i met my husband he was 31 and i was 21, i was the first actual love for him as i responded to him. being 31 he must have liked a few woman but they were nt his love and non responded to him.
for me he was definatly my first one, the day i fell in love with him i decided he will be my last love.
he had family obligation and could not marry me, i waited for 14 long years .. finally we were married last year.
He married me without his parents approval, well i believe with full heart that i am one lucky woman to have him as my first and last.
No matter what we go through he will be my one and only
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
3 Aug 08
Well.. my GF said that I am her last love. I like it and I thanked her very much because she said that. Being the last love means, there would be no other one who can take her away from me. But somehow I always envy her first love. I know this would sound crazy, but I do.
No matter how hard I tried to erase the memory of her first love, it would still there. I don't know what I was doing, sometimes just remember that I am not her first made me a little bit jealous and angry.
It's great to be the last one, but the first one always have the special place there in her heart, and I can't take it. blah
