HoW do yOu put conFidence back into a man?

Gosh! We're on the same shoe right now. It's really a confusing matter for men. But it's always a matter of communication. Just don't be too pushy. As a wife, we must support whatever his pland are. Let him feel that you'll be there to help. Assure him that if all his plans fail, you'll be ready to assist. But don't be too pushy. Acknowledge his leadership no matter what. =)

I know how your husband feels. I been in their in that situation. My ego was crush but my gf did not leave me she was always there at my side. Life was not that easy I was so ashamed but she was always their listening to me, give me importance, and she never turn her back. Life is not that easy, even here theirs a lot of problems with finding a job. It took me 4 month to have a job and I was not happy. She even find ways like buying news paper to look for a job for me and even accompany me to look for a job. She even asked her friends if their is vacancy in their companies. She tells me Have faith in God, God is good, God is always with us, don't loose hope. God will make a way. Just feel that your on a vecation and just rest your mind. So that time I was jobless I was helping her in the house chores for her to let my mind out of the situation. She even make me read a lot of books more on self esteem. God bless! Have a nice day!

Just be your loving self,he will ask no more than that,my hubby was very poorly and lost his confidence very badly,and with a lot of love,and an extra helping of praise he was able to regain a lot of it,it just takes time,they are so used to the `man the hunter` theme,and if woman is the hunter then they need time to adjust,just give him an extra spoonful of love.

Good day.. Just be yourself and remind him that he can have a job one day. he just need to believe in himself and make him feel that you still love him and want him despite of that circumstances.

gave him a time and dont try to presure him if he had no jobb

This may really sound mushy but what you can do is just assure him that you will still be together through thick and thin, for richer and for poorer.. I have seen a lot of relationship go into waste just because of money.. Don't let your relationship be one of those.. Soon enough, he will find a job..