what would you do if your wife cheats on you?
By liyanne
@liyanne (41)
Philippines
August 3, 2008 2:09pm CST
To the guys here in mylot, what would you do when your wife cheats on you?
I know this guy who has experienced that thing. His wife cheated on him three times (and still counting). And the worst thing is that when the girl went abroad, according to her to work as an accountant, but apparently went home after 2months and was pregnant. and she admitted that it's not his husband's. If you were on this situation, what would you do?
2 responses
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
3 Aug 08
In a marriage, both party should engaged in a commitment of monogamous relationship. If one party has broken the commitment, the other one has the rights to end the relationship. It seems that the wife has no respect on the commitment and broken it for many times, I wonder what made the husband doesn't want to let go. If I were the husband, I would had divorced her at the moment I found out the cheat.
Of course, divorce is an easy answer, but for some people, especially they who get married under the religion struggled to stay with the marriage because it is wrong to divorce. Some other people stuggle in the name of love.
Personally, I think if there is no more happiness in marriage, there's no other way than separation.
@liyanne (41)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
I am actually a catholic and it is one of the religions who is not in favor of divorce whatsoever.. If I were in this case, If she did it once I can still forgive her and if she promised that she will not do it again, I will give her another chance, but her doing it for second, third, fourth time is totally unacceptable...
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 08
yeah.. my parents married in catholic church too. My mom is chatolic, so I know a bit baout chatolic marriage. The principal of chatolic marriage is monogamus and never divorce. I learned it too in my school (my parents sent me to the chatolic school too). But sometimes, situation becomes out of hand and we cannot control it anymore, the best way is to have a separation.
@clintstephen (10)
•
4 Aug 08
i would try to make her understand how much i still love her coz she is dear to me.it might be a bit difficult not a bit but very difficult but i will make my mind in such a way.i'll talk to her how much more i love her coz she told me the truth.if it was just an accident i wud forgive her and if u ever come to this situation again just think of me how much i love you and care fore you.i would ask her why she went away from me and what was the real problem.but if she does it once more i will have to say that i am not interested in continuin this relationship.but i will try my best to restore this relationship befor thinking of breaking it coz its very easy to break but very very hard to join.if i am going to tell her and make her understand how much i love her then i am sure if she is able to see the love that i has for her she will change coz Gods there to luk after everything and for him its very simple.
