broken relationship

Canada
August 3, 2008 4:50pm CST
have you ever experience 'broken hearted'? if you do, i would like to share my lil story =( and ask for your comment if u have any I thought it was gonna last forever, i thought i was really loved and cared, no one has ever made me feel so special. I was deceived. he was just toying me. he was having some kind of relation with my BEST FRIEND! i both love them, but they deceived me. I would've forgiven them if they told me straight that they like each other, not liek hide it away from me and make me discover that myself. Nothing really last forever. Being happy is too scary cuz you might not know whta'll happen next ...
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@Josette_J (805)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 08
Ouch, that hurts! Well, at least you got rid of him, right? I'm sad when I hear about broken hearts because well, it's just so darn sad! Yup, I've experienced it before. And only a few months ago too. I was lifeless for about a month. When I think back of happy times together, I become really sad and lose interest in anything else. But then, like they said, time heals all wounds. For a while, I didn't believe it at all. I thought I'd never heal. I tried to keep busy but somehow, my thoughts would wander back to him. It's been 4 months now and I believe I'm getting better. Now I'm just living my life. Going to classes, reading, watching funny movies, going out with friends, blogging, joining clubs, etc. I try to throw myself into new things so that I'm busy. Sometimes, I feel that I should thank him for breaking up. Because if he haven't, then I wouldn't know how a broken heart is like and how I'm going to heal from it. I learn to be a stronger and more independent person and that I should not let anyone make me feel inferior.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
3 Aug 08
I think you just experienced something we all experience when we are young, I know it hurts but there will be new loves for you...I think you will learn as you get older that men and women treat romance in different ways, women really love from the heart and tend most tiimes to be loyal to those feelings but men feel love love from a different area altogether, and tend to say say a do things at the time to exercise that love, it doesn't really come from the heart, and that is life I guess...just be happy I suppose you are experiencing love, learn from each encounter and one day someone special will come along that will be a little more honest and serious than all the others but always remember men are so different to we females....