avatars changing and avatars for keeps
By maryannemax
@maryannemax (12156)
Sweden
August 3, 2008 6:50pm CST
i am a myLot member for two years and ten months now and had my avatar changed just twice eversince.
i have so many people on my friend's list and it's too difficult to keep track to each and everyone of them. there are times i remember their usernames but usually, i remember friends through their avatars. however, there are some who keeps on changing their avatars most of the time and it's usually too difficult to notice them sometimes.
do you also get bothered whenever a friend here in myLot changes his or her avatar all the time or you just don't seem to care at all?
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10 responses
@penny64 (1106)
• Australia
4 Aug 08
I must say that I recognise people from their avatars, so when it changes it takes me a while to work out who it is! On the other hand, you can learn a lot about someone when they change avatars, because you can see what appeals to that person. I personally don't change mine - that just shows I'm lazy.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
well, i haven't changed my avatar for more two years now and i am not lazy. lol. i just wanna stick to it and help people remember that it's me on the discussions.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
i thought about that, too before. what if one can change their usernames? could be really horrible here in myLot... too much confusion and too much misunderstandings. i am glad one can't change their usernames though. thanks for the very good idea penny!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
4 Aug 08
I don't so much get bothered by it, but I can find it a bit confusing when a mylotter changes their avatar, especially if I don't remember their user name.
I haven't changed my avatar in over a year, but before this I changed it often. I sure hope I didn't confuse anyone back then! I just figured with a user name like mine it was easy enough to remember, so I didn't worry about.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
yeah. i remember you sacmom. i am glad you're still here in mylot!
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
4 Aug 08
I wish people would just keep their avatars the same. It would make a lot more sense for people like us, if they would. I agree with you. There are so many people on here, and so many people we have as friends on MyLot, that we need a way to be able o keep track of them all.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
that's so true. makes it worst when people just can't have their minds fixed when it comes to their avatars. i have this problem remembering names so i just remember the avatars. and if they change theirs, i kinda have problems remembering them again.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
4 Aug 08
Hi maryannemax...glad to see you around. There were only a few (twice also) times I've ever changed my avatar and only here. I've been using my crystal gazing black kitty one for about four or five years...it's gotten to be so much a part of me I can't really think of using another one..the times I did change it, honestly I confused myself..LOL
Yes, it does seem some people change their avatars more regularly...and I often miss their old one, but I guess some people just like a change but it can be confusing...On the flip side...sometimes I'll see an avatar of what I THINK is one of my friends...but the name is different...meaning more than one user has decided to use the same avatar..so far I've NEVER seen anyone use mine...hope not..LOL
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
i had been away for awhile because i needed to go to school and had a serious focus (gosh!) in studying the swedish language which actually paid back. that's why, when i returned here in myLot, i was only familiar with the avatars of my friends.
noone has used my avatar as well and i guess noone will ever do that. hehe. i love your avatar by the way. i have a very black cat like the one you have on your photo. so, i'll never forget yours. take care!
@moneymint18 (481)
• India
4 Aug 08
i also prefer not to change avtar at all because we can not remember the name of each person but even we can remember the avtar.
i have one suggestion choose your avtar unique so that there will be no confusion and any misunderstanding .
i have joined since 3 months back but i still i am having the same avtar till now i will keep the same forever.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
glad to know you're loving mylot.
i had been here for more than 2 years now and i changed my avatar just twice since. gonna stick to this one for a very very long time now. see you around!
@successlog (3172)
• China
4 Aug 08
hello friend: i am glad to respond your discussion here.I think it is a good way to recognize our friends by avatars.I always can remember my friend by their avatars. I think it is more remarkable to me.lol.So if some of them change their avatars frequently, i think i could not recognixe them any more if i don't track something,for instance, the letter we write to each other.I have used the 2 avatars till now, I like my avatar, it is lovely and meaningful.
good luck
@ajesh_pullad (2251)
• India
4 Aug 08
Hi friend, only once i changed my avatar.i don't really like to change avatar.i have only vague idea about your avatar.i think i participated your discussion long ago.but i remember this photo of couples. Avatar is a brand.
Keep in touch. Thank you
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
thank you! yup. could be that you participated in my discussions before. but i had not been here for many months so i guess, you could not remember me clearly. that's okey. thank you for dropping by.
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
LOL. sorry, I am one of those people who keeps on changing avatars.
anyway, avatar is the best way for us to remember our friends here in mylot, same here.. I get to forget them if ever they change their avatar.. so now, I always remember my active friends through their user name..
I myself tends to change my avatar if I have a new pictures.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
i understand people like you and i respect your decisions about changing avatars. i hope i can be like you... someone who can easily remember names. but after being here for more than two years (three years in october), and having lots of friends on my lists, it's too difficult to remember most of them by names.
have fun!
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
yeah, it was kinda hard to remember since you have lots of friends here..
well, sometimes I add my close buddies here in mylot on my YM list of friends
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
4 Aug 08
I have been here 10 months. I have changed my avatar 1 that whole time. It went from a pic of my daughter, to a new pic of my daughter. When my son is born I may put an new avatar up. One of both of my children. It can be a bit frustrating. But I did try and let my friends know when I did it, and will do so again if I decide to change.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
wow! cool! giving birth again? i wonder how excited you are now. i hope everything goes well with you.
anyway, hope to see your new avatar soon!
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
4 Aug 08
maybe i am not so particular with avatars. as you said, there are some people or member here that keeps on changing avatars, and one of the is me. i do not really get bothered with avatars, i can remember my friends name and that is more important to me.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
that is really good for you. your memory is so sharp. i think i am just getting old and already having problems when it comes to remembering names that's why i rely on avatars most of the time.